Learn to consider your own decisions, so you don't regret later

Often we hear people say "you'd better be this way, you'd better be that way".

Hey guys, realize that, "we can't satisfy everyone" and remember that, "humans are never satisfied".

Therefore, stop making decisions in order to try to satisfy everyone. No one can satisfy everyone in this world. Because someone's opinion is different from someone else's. Everyone has their own considerations, the most important thing is how to do your own version of the best.

Thinking like this doesn't mean we have to be selfish or selfish. Selfish with considering will give the best is proper egoism. Because not everyone can think further about the decisions we take. We are the only ones who understand ourselves. And not everyone can accept the decisions we take.

On the other hand, if you don't want to be selfish, thinking about the good of others more than for your own good, what you will feel later is just extreme tiredness. Why? Because not everyone will feel what you have sacrificed. In fact, there may even be many who use you with the thought concept of "aji while, when will it be?" When this happens, who feels loss and weariness? The answer is none other than "self".

So guys, from now on, learn to start loving yourself. As humans, we must be wise in making decisions. Don't always think about sacrificing yourself, because that's totally unwise, it's even a way of intimidating yourself. While other people you want to satisfy will not necessarily be satisfied.

When we want to sacrifice for the happiness of others, we also have to think longer, what about ourselves? Will it be happy then? Will the person be satisfied? If the answer is "YES", then you do it. But if not, do not try to take the risk, because it might be fatal.

If the time comes for you to make the wrong decision with consideration for the good of others, chances are that you will feel extremely exhausted. At this time of exhaustion too, maybe no one is aware of your sacrifice. And in the end there is only deep regret.

Regret that always comes at the end will always haunt life. Get carried away every day, even every moment, and in the end will only make you tired without anyone feeling it. Yes, this is the result if you sacrifice too much. Please guys, don't make life more miserable with your own decisions. That's not worth it.

So, what is the conclusion? The conclusion is that we must think about how not to sacrifice ourselves but also not to harm others. Thus, you can produce maximum results without any party being harmed. But, of course, there is still the possibility of gossip and the like. Yes, if you have done your best, you don't need to think about what other people say. After all, people don't really know the process. Just respond with a smile and enthusiasm to always do the best.