For those of you who are tired of living in a relationship, don't be in a hurry to make decisions.

Unfortunately, with a partner, it is undeniable that there are times when we are still approached by boredom. Although, it is said that there are couples who never get bored with each other, whether it's true or not, I still consider it a mere fiction. What I believe is, most of us must have been in a phase of boredom with a partner. Or, maybe you are currently fighting against boredom?

We analogize with favorite foods. Whatever your hobby is eating nasi padang, if for 24 hours a week you only eat naspad, you will definitely get bored. Likewise in a relationship. No matter how dear, there must be a point where we feel bored. We don't need to feel guilty or avoid this situation. Feeling empty and tasteless is inevitable because the creator has programmed boredom as the nature of every human being. Unfortunately, sometimes circumstances fuel us with the fact that our partner is insensitive. Or on the other hand, reality includes us in the long distance relationship congregation list?

Bored is human. However, the decision to end the relationship because of boredom, makes us inhuman. Try to think back on the various memories and the difficult happy times that have been passed together, does it really have to end just because of one word—bored? These feelings arise because we allow ourselves to drift away feeling them. The next step we can take is to try to accept it, and then fight back by trying to rebuild the atmosphere.

There are those who manage to fight boredom just by scrolling through shared photos, or scrolling through existing chats. However, there are also those who are dizzy with their own condition, and have the effect of blaming their partner for being "insensitive". For this second case, it cannot be done by only one party. We still need support and cooperation from our partners to get out of the bondage of boredom.

So, how do you get your partner to know that our situation is not okay, and together rebuild the atmosphere? The answer is only one, namely communication. Yep, communication is koentji. Don't turn your partner to ask, "Why are you here?", you just answer "It's okay".

One thing we sometimes don't realize, it could be, your partner actually feels a relationship that is starting to drift apart through your recent changes in nature. He knows that and feels it too. However, he didn't try to ask and instead kept it under wraps. However, the feeling that your relationship is in trouble can always be felt by the couple. So, try to talk honestly and find the best solution.

The majority of residents in the field of coding science are women, but it does not rule out the possibility of men. The point is, regardless of gender, let's learn to stop coding. And if your partner has told a long story telling the story, try to appreciate and understand. One form of gratitude is when we maximize the gifts of God's mouth, brain and heart. If you are not empowered, are you ready to be taken by God?

We must learn not to be selfish in dealing with other people and indeed are required to be more mature in dealing with our ego and circumstances. That it must be remembered, there are always feelings that must be maintained, be it in a dating relationship, or with family and friends. Each person has feelings and hearts, so we should not arbitrarily demand to always be understood without ever returning to understand and understand the situation of others.

Believe me, boredom is only a test for a moment, and it is very easy for God to turn things around. It could be that you are busy struggling with boredom today, meanwhile, he is busy planning a surprise to meet you.

Maybe, you are bored because you have been away from your partner for so long, who knows, he is on his way to you? Just accept the boredom, and accompany it with good thoughts and good prayers. Hopefully, life is pleasing to give a variety of good surprises. Don't be in a hurry to make a decision, okay? Don't let the act of ending the relationship lead to regretting your choice.