Bringing Calm When Facing Problems
Anxiety can hit anyone. Uninvited anxiety, anxiety and worry come naturally. This condition arises when faced with one condition. Facing problems. Troubles are like breakfast to you. It is impossible for any human being to live apart from this burden.
From the start of trivial things to choose the clothes you want to wear. Until a big problem that involves many people, such as holding a wedding party. Humans will always be faced with problems throughout their lives. Because life itself is also a problem.
The difference between successful people and those who are not is how they are when faced with problems. How can anyone be so calm when faced with such a big problem. While there are people who immediately panic when faced with a small problem. Human response to the problem is different. Why is the response different? Because the human qualities are also different.
Instead of looking for ways to solve so many problems. It's good you learn to be a person who is ready to face problems. So when the problem comes you are ready. You become a person who has fighting power and calm when faced with problems. The reality, of course, is not easy.
Calmness and readiness do not come suddenly. They come from a series of events and a long process from within you. Questions arise in your mind. How to? What process must be followed to get peace?
Silence for a moment before responding
Consciously or not, the daily activities that you live are carried out by your subconscious. You eat in the morning, because you are used to having breakfast every day. Bath. Daily activities that have become your routine. Sometimes in responding to something you are spontaneous. Yet it could be that the spontaneous response determines the important things.
The good thing is that you pause for a moment. Take a deep breath. Digest what you have to say, say, or type when there is something that needs a response. Taking action suddenly is not wise.
In your silence, it means you are completely silent. Silently trying to explore in the big picture a problem. You do an in-depth analysis of what response needs to be conveyed.
Learn from Wrong Decisions
Leading is an easy thing. Leading is about making decisions. Right decisions make you win life. While wrong decisions make you learn. What is the right way to be able to make the right decisions? By making the wrong decision. lol? Why is that? Yes, if you've made the wrong decision, you understand that in the future you don't have to make the wrong decision. You learn how to avoid those wrong decisions. You will become wiser in making future decisions.
Experience is the best teacher
Flying hours do matter. Don't worry if you feel stupid right now. Instead, be grateful. That's a sign that you have the will to improve yourself. Great writers don't appear suddenly. He is trained to write words every day. Some even can write ten articles in a day. Untrained natural talent can lose to someone who is not very talented but has the persistence to practice his skills every day.
The more you practice, the more you learn. Then you will have more experience. The more experience you have, the more proficient you will be at your job. The more proficient, the more prepared you are to face everything in the future.
Panic, anxiety will come if they have never met a problem that you did not get from previous experience. So welcome the new problem with curiosity and enthusiasm to conquer it. Your future self will thank you today for daring to decide to face it.
