What is our biggest decision in our life? Some said they were married, some said they were divorced, some said they quit their routine jobs, some said they decided to become entrepreneurs, and so on.
Decisions become very important when we give weight to them, labeling them as 'Life-Changing Decisions'. This is where we pay more attention than other decisions. Even though every decision is important for us as well as for others, it's just that we often think it's 'not very important'.
Decisions that we consider important are usually decisions that are considered for more than 15 minutes. For example, when choosing the color of the motorbike that we will buy, it must take more than 15 minutes. Meanwhile, when determining what menu we will order when reading the menu, it will definitely not take more than 2 minutes.
What are the characteristics if we have really chosen or decided something?
No Regrets, that's right, there are no regrets when we really choose.
So if one day we remember some choices in the past that we still regret, actually at that time we HAVE NOT really made a choice. Our choices only tend to fulfill our desires. Just like we are looking for a partner who 'we think' is the most suitable for us because they have something in common with us.
This is actually we are not loving our partner but we are loving ourselves which falls more to the fulfillment of our desire to be loved. The tails have a tendency to equate ourselves with our partners and expect to receive the same treatment.
How about work? Do you regret your choice of work? If yes, it means that you have not chosen before, if you have no regrets, thank God, you have chosen. The good or bad has become a consequence of that choice.
We are given the freedom to choose but we will never be free from the consequences of the choices we make.
In the past, I had regretted several choices in my life, because I once chose not to choose which basically not choosing is also a choice.
But now I don't regret it anymore because I'm in this moment, being like this, right here, so I WANT.
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