Being Yourself is Key

It is important to cultivate self-confidence as a strong foundation in order to be able to show yourself to the fullest. Humans are born unique and different from one another complete with all the advantages that God has given as provisions for life.

• Humans in childhood, always listen to his own voice which is full of dreams and desires to be a big change giver to the world.

Over time, we are faced with various situations and choices until we finally focus on what other people think of us and stop listening to our own voice.

Filled with many voices from other people, slowly diminishing self-confidence, not infrequently an identity crisis occurs. This is very crucial because when we are not able to believe in ourselves, it has an impact on what we do. Suicide for example, when a person is under great pressure, he is trapped in the perception of how other people judge him. he doesn't have enough self-confidence so he feels like a failure because other people think he's a failure, but not necessarily! The suicide rate continues to increase day by day.

WHO reports, every 20 seconds someone commits suicide.

In this era of fast technology, many studies have proven that the reasons and factors for a person to commit suicide is one of them due to psychological illness. In this case, in addition to medical action, self-confidence is needed coupled with intrapersonal communication with consistent and continuous intensity to help prevent, recover and even improve mental health.

The decline in self-confidence is inseparable from changes, both in the social environment or in the global environment. A dilemma that can cause conflict for yourself. On the one hand, we have no choice but to adapt to the social dynamics that are heavily influenced by the progress of the times and technology. On the other hand, our inability to accept changes that come massively little by little keeps us busy on things that are not yet clear.

• As a result, we unconsciously just follow what most people do.

Confidence can be a companion in all changes if we always give a special space to listen to what we have to say. With sufficient levels, self-confidence becomes a spectrum that supports mental health and wealth. There is no need to be afraid if we make a lot of mistakes, at least, we are wrong in what we want to do, rather than what to follow what people say.

Realistic way of living when making mistakes and then knowing how to do it right, experiencing the difficult process continuously is also part of growing up in life.

• In essence, we are never separated from conditions that are not fun and during his life, humans are not always at the level same, it depends on how we treat ourselves to achieve the vision and mission.

Then the only one we can trust is ourselves. Slowly but surely, self-confidence that is continuously nurtured and developed, will lead us to the courage to create change.