There's always something amiss in every situation.
There's always something we wished we should know or have at every point in life.
There's always this feeling you get when you feel you don't have or know enough.
You feel out of place,its like you are not current enough.
I always have this feeling when am with a group of friends,colleagues e.t. c..
It always felt like i don't belong there. But when am alone ,in my comfort zone,i become more confident...
I know some people might have this feeling too. I just don't assume. I know.
Why??
I know this because I can't be the only one in this entire universe having this feeling.
I know am not alone 😊😊
So if you are like that join the train lets catch cruise😄😄
This is not a personal article,because some individuals might be thinking if am writing something in accordance to a diary.
Let's start..
If you are feeling out of place amongst others,don't worry about it. Its actually normal. I believe you are not just comfortable enough to be in place. You being with friends,and not actually in that group of friend.. Feels awkward right..
So what do i do if it were to be me.
I try to work more on myself,try other friend zone. If i observe am more confident in other places, I'll start to wonder what's wrong with the old friend zone. Am not saying you should ignore them and the rest like that. You just need to find out what the person is doing differently that doesn't collide with your policy. He/she might be more intelligent than you and you always feel down whenever a topic comes up because you are not up to that standard. He/she might be a jovial person that people are always amused by them and you as your own funny self might be scared they won't be amused by you
Whatever the case may be,do not worry too much over something that won't yield good result. Just find a way to work on yourself.
As for me... In the 1st situation. I'll take that as an opportunity to widen my knowledge on things in different aspect. That way, even if am shy to speak. I'll be able to defend my answers and from there i'll start getting confident👌💪. In the 2nd situation,been jovial is a gift and you should start noticing when you are with your siblings or someone really close to you,you say something and they start laughing. And if you don't,don't need to bother.
Back to the real topic...
We can't have it all...
The ones up☝️ are just examples to illustrate the meaning behind the article. Fingers are not equal.. No one is an island of knowledge. You can't be the all-knowing,the all-having. You can't be the doctor,the receptionist,the dentist,the manager together.
All you have to do is just to make the best of what you know and have.
We can't have it all!!!
What really prompted me to write this article were 2 logical reasons. Let me share them with you.
1) On my way to work this morning,i boarded a public transport, a christian man started preaching. I am a muslim but then i don't criticize . Then he said something that caught my attention.He quoted the word from the bible..
"What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and losses his own soul". That at first took me into deep thinking.
I don't need to exaggerate on the quote. The sentence alone is clear to all my readers..
2) While at work,preparing to go home. I noticed a colleague of mine went moody in a matter of seconds. We were just having fun ,playing then after some minutes his mood changed. As the caring person i am😁😁i asked what was wrong. At first he said nothing that he was just thinking about his life and stuffs like that. I was like ok. Then he just said,"You can't have it all" . At first i just repeated the word after him and didn't think about it until now. When i was thinking of an article to publish..
WE CAN'T HAVE IT ALL..
No one can have everything he wants in life. He will keep asking for more.
When you know you can't have it just use the little resources you have to create more wave for you.
Thanks again to all my readers out there for your constant love and affection.
👍👍🥰🥰
