When you think of this what is the first thing that comes to the mind. Am i starting a moral instruction class or what?? 😂😂. Nothing of such. I just decided to give it a simple title because its most of what I'll be repeating here. So now let's get back to class😁😁. Just kidding.

When we define respect,we have different definitions as to how we view it.

Respect is an attitude of admiration or esteem.

Respect is the condition of being honoured,regard highly..

Any ways we define it. It still comes down to been admired,been honoured...

We all want to be respected in one way or the other. Whether at home,at work,at school,in the society,anywhere.

We want respect from younger ones ,our friends,, our colleagues,our parents,even from the opposite sex.

We all crave for that feeling. The feeling of been honoured,being admired,being highly regarded,which is good,a sign of responsibility.

But how do we portray the respect we need.

To me respect is all about give and take. What you give is what would be returned.

Respect isn't all about greetings and all.

Respect is the more important element of personality. It is like an investment. Whatever you give to others it will be returned with profit.

So how do you want to be respected??

Being respected is in different aspect. People respect in different ways.

You may feel you are being disrespected in a particular and may not like it. Your own view of respect is totally different from mine. You may feel this person does not respect me and am way older than them. They may not see it that way.

He doesn't greet you,and you feel disrespected because you are older than him. Fine,its rude not to greet but he may not consider that,he may admire you from the way you resolve issues.

Like i said earlier. Being respected is in different aspects. People respect in different ways.

• The way you relate

• Your sense of humour

• Decision making

• Your dressing sense

• Confidence etc

Behaviour is also included too and so on. Now don't be quick to judge just because you are not being respected the way you want.

Yours is from a different angle,theirs is from another angle.

If you want to be respected for your character,work on it.

If you want to be respected for your commitment to things,work more on it.

If you want to be respected on your choice of clothes,work on it.

Anything you want people to respect you with work on it.

Admiration is also a sign of respect.

"Oh,I admire her confidence" its also a sign of respect.

"I admire the way she carry herself" be happy it also a sign of respect.

And if you want to be respected in everything you do😌 work on it. But know this we all have haters. Know that no matter how hard you try,some will still hate the fact that you try.

But i always say one thing to myself. As long as they still speak at my back,they still respect me enough to make me the title of the conversation.

Don't try to please everyone,you will only end up stressing yourself. Do what you feel is right. Respect yourself first,then someone can appreciate you. If someone show admiration on any of your attributes,work more on it and the person will respect you more..

Respect is the more important element of personality. It is more like an investment. Whatever you give to others it will return with profit..

Respect is everywhere and in everything.

Thank you for reading..

A happy new month to my adorable readers. Thank you...