Expectations VS Reality.

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Expectations:

  • Belief about(or mental picture of the future)

  • The feeling that something is about to happen.

  • Anticipating with confidence of fulfillment.

Reality:

  • The state of being actual or real

  • All of your experiences that determines how things appear to you.

We all know we get disappointed when we know our expectation are not really fulfilled. Especially if you have been expecting for a while now.

What we expect to happen is really different to what life brings.

Why do we expect more from someone or something when we clearly know what is going to happen??.

Human kind cannot bear very much reality..

humans can't because if they do our expectations shouldn't be to high.

We always tend to believe our expectations a lot before reality kicks in. I am not saying you shouldn't expect something or someone but we should try to expect less from something to avoid been disappointed at last.

Expectation is like fairytale movies. You cannot combine it to what really happen in true life,but you can compare some of the events though.

This article is written mainly to point out some differences between our expectations to certain things and what reality actually brings.

  • We all expect to be favoured back when we are generous,kind,helpful to people. But in reality,some would just ignore.

  • We all expect that after high school,go to university,graduate,get a job,get married,good life but in reality the road is really not so smooth.

  • We all expect that when you lend someone money and promises to pay on a certain day,he should. But in reality! Oh my,🀣🀣 the individual would take longer than that,some would even go to the extent of turning you into a thrift collector πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

  • We all expect our first love to be like fairytales but in reality (lol). and the rest like that.

  • We expect things to go right because we did it right but reality would go left.

  • We expect to study and pass and reality would show us that not all preparations counts. Some won't study deep and pass.

  • Back in school if we loved a particular topic in a subject and we memorised it we would expect it to show up in the question and ace it but reality would keep telling us "you did not come prepared my child".

We expect from a lot of things which is excellentπŸ‘ and a sign of hope,but we should try to reduce our limit of expectations. We should try to Expect less. Not only from people but from certain situations.

Vote for the man who promises least; he'll be least disappointing-Bernard. M. Baruch.

I actually included that quote there because it flows with my topic. If you really understand what it truly entails. Some would read and be like' how does voting rhyme".

Its not about the voting,it about the expectation and the reality.

Our expectations from the man is less. Even if reality wants to show its true colors we won't be that surprised. Why? Because the man didn't raise our expectations high enough to get disappointed.

Do you know sometimes,some things we expect to happen does happen?? True right??

And you might be wondering if reality is on the same side as you πŸ˜„πŸ˜„. Its reality!

We might just be expecting something or someone to show up and boom reality backs up our expectations.

Do not get the idea wrong,we are human beings after all. We are meant to expect,it normal and a good sign.

Expecting is a sign of hope which is good. It is more or less a belief of the future

I would just want you all to know this

Live simply,Give more ,expect less. If you do(expect less) you would be less disappointed.

Thank you.. πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

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I love this content. We should raise our hope very high so we won't be disappointed, hmm. That's deep but then many don't really know. We should always expect the worse and if that good thing happens, fine we will be happy but when is otherwise, we wouldn't be that bothered becoz we expected it. Thanks for sharing.

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I am happy to share thanks for reading

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