Let's learn to use our head...

She sat down in tears, she was exhausted and weak. She could not believe they are monsters in sheep clothings in the church. She began recalling how she has been on her own world and how he had come to pose himself like a saviour to bring her out from her shell.

But he shouldn't have cajoled her into marriage. She had built her walls around him, every plan she had she included him, what again will she do with her life. She thought to herself how she was going to start over again.

Thanks to the heavens, she had finished her final papers but will soon be going home. But she wouldn't want to go home to see that beast, she began cursing him under her breath.

And her mum called " Joy my daughter, won't you come home to attend the wedding of your Music Director"? But she reluctantly lied that she was still busy with her project.

Meanwhile, she began asking herself how she got here? Were there no signs but she couldn't find any. Then she remembered the dream she had.

In the dream, she was in her wedding gown waiting for this same guy to come and the invitees were all seated. She waited patiently but he wasn't forthcoming but then saw his friend, immediately she woke up from the dream.

In another dream, she saw herself walking furiously to a wedding hall where she learnt that this same guy was getting married, as she was walking she was praying it shouldn't be true. But getting there it was true and she began crying.

This was all indications showing this her MD isn't what he portrayed and was never for her. But she never wanted to bring to her memory the reality of the truth. She began replaying all the events they were together since she was younger in her mind. How he told her he was going to marry her but she rejected seeing they were all of the different class systems. He may not have made any sexual advances to her not rape her but he has abused her emotionally.

For days she couldn't eat, her mum will prepare her best meals but there was no appetite, she was losing it neither was she concentrating on her work.

She thought she wasn't going to come out from this trauma.

Pls, let's educate our young girls to "use their head" because they are the prey to these emotionless humans walking about. I will advise we use our head before and while in love because this thing called Love is just an idea and can escape into thin air like a vapour.

Pls ladies, let's be smart and use our heads...