It's their pain...

Most times when people go through hard times we pity them but if you hear the story behind their suffering, you would just hiss. What am I saying? I'm not saying you shouldn't pity people, but know the depth of that thing before you usher your pity to them.

Also, this goes in hand with not just jumping into conclusion, know the depth of something before you criticise. Some persons will intentionally incur problems for themselves and when something bad happens they look for who to blame.

Again, before you jump into action, THINK. Even if you have better knowledge about something, I advise you still have a rethink.

I want to talk about an action of a man that led to his doom due to his selfish pride and arrogance.

He had a beautiful lady as a girlfriend. She was willing to spoil him with affection and care. At times, she would take themselves out, and all bills will be on her. She is a sophisticated lady.

But guess what, the uncle said he wasn't going to wife her, that he knows what he wants in a woman. His friends talked to him about his irrational decision and this was his response "I want a woman who when I tell her something, she does it quickly without questioning me, a woman who is still in her raw state". Wow, his friend tried talking sense into him all to no avail.

He went as far as telling his mum that stays in the village to help him get a wife who is humble, respectful, and in her raw state. His mother swag into action. Trust mothers now, she was able to get a village gullible village girl. He married her immediately, brought her to his mansion and our wife started her drama.

She has refused to take a shower after the journey, and that she only takes her bath once in the village. Uncle was shocked, he just dragged into the bathroom and force her to take shower. Most times, she wouldn't even take her bath for days if the man isn't around to monitor her. Brushing her teeth is far from it. In short, personal hygiene was far from her.

Next, he asked her what her hobby was, aunty said FOOD 😅...

Trust this our wife that isn't exposed, she goes around the house wearing a wrapper around her chest, she isn't exposed to the skimpy things one wears at home to look attractive. One day, she came to his office tying a wrapper and a top. She said she doesn't know how to use the landline in the house. Uncle felt embarrassed in the presence of his workers, not that she doesn't have nice attire but she is too naive to put them on because she wasn't brought up that way.

It was beginning to be dawn on uncle that he had made a wrong choice.

Let me end here, but this is the fate of most men in this world today. Some of them don't go to the village to get a wife but hide in the disguise of I want a cool lady when in the actual sense they want someone who would not stand up against their decisions.

Due to their pride and ego, they the extremely quiet ladies who can be easily swayed with their sweet mouths. One who will worship them and can't question them.

When they see the sophisticated ladies they hide in the disguise that these ones will spend their money on fashion but in the real sense, they are stingy.

Let me finish my, he packaged his wife back to his mum and attempt to go to his former girlfriend. But his former girlfriend is occupied already. Guess who? His friend...

Thanks for reading my story, I hope you enjoyed it and learnt from it.