Who doesn't want a happy life? We all want to enjoy and have peace without any trouble or problem. We all know how many of us encounter different problems and wish they could just come out of it and live a good life. A life free of struggles, free of commotion, free of poverty and just want to live happily. I also want a happy life, especially having a beautiful home with my husband and children and enjoy to the brim. But something we don't understand is that problems are around us, but they aren't permanent only if we endure for that limited time.
There are people around us who are really suffering and find it difficult to cope with challenges in their lives. Some have already done what is beyond them and are running for solutions to end their problems. They caused it all themselves and are now pleading to be set free. There, you would see many of them going from one place to another seeking for solutions and be free from every bondage.
A happy life is always a smiling one. When you are happy, you enjoy life. I have brought to you tips and what I call formula to a happy life and I believe if we could follow these formulas, it will work for us and live a happy life including myself because I believe we all are still learning from this platform. Let's take a look at the formula:
1. NEVER TRY TO DEFEAT ANYONE, BUT TRY TO WIN EVERYONE.
Life is not a competition and we all have our different path to success. God, who created us made us differently and one way is different from another. Human beings just want to compete with their fellow beings and run beyond their capacity. You will see people trying to pick a race that isn't theirs and want to take the same path others are taking. Our destiny is different, so we must never try to defeat anyone as this can lead you to where you never expect. We need to be united together and work to achieve our aim in life. Mind your business and try your best to win the heart of everyone around you. When you work to make success, and the other also keeps in track and take the right way, this will make it easier to achieve purpose. No one should think of competing with others, instead, run your own race.
2. DON'T LAUGH AT ANYONE, BUT LAUGH WITH EVERYONE
Though God created everyone for a purpose and it is not your right to mock others or look down on them as if they are nothing. We all aren't born with a silver spoon in our mouth and we all have our different ways of surviving, but it is very unfair to laugh at anyone because we don't know what can happen tomorrow. Those you look down on today, thinking they can't amount to anything, might be your helper tomorrow. Don't speak ill of anyone but support and encourage them. Laugh with them with the little achievement they have and embrace each other. Happiness comes when we laugh with others, appreciate their efforts and celebrate them. Don't try to see from your own angle, but see from another perspective, show empathy to others.
3. SITTING ALONE IS BETTER THAN MINGLING AND WALKING WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE.
Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. You are better off alone until the right one comes along.- Tony Gaskins
It is very dangerous to walk with the wrong people because they are ready to ruin you till the end. It is better not to have friends at all, than having the wrong type of friends who would never want to see you excelling in life. There are some people who are willing to sacrifice their time in destroying other people's success and back off when their plans have been fulfilled. You need to know the kind of people you move with. This is why it is good to study those you want to be with, so you don't end up eating with pretenders. They are evil and would go any length to see your downfall. If you must live a happy life, move away from the wrong set of people.
It is very important to live a happy life and enjoy the rest of your life fulfilling purpose. I believe with these, we all can be free from troubles of life. Thanks for reading.
Thanks for this. Indeed, everyone wants to have a happy life. But sometimes, it ain't easy to accomplish. Let's take these steps one by one, and become a happy person we want to be. :)