Do what is right

It's nice when you're in front of me, but when you're turning your back on what is being said against you. You’re silent, but the issue and story make you. It turns you around and makes you look wrong and guilty.

You don’t want to stop and do nothing but find fault with you. There are people who are slanderous, like termites who will gradually destroy your life without you realizing it. If you do not catch the termite, it will spread throughout the house and they will destroy it completely.

What can we do or do right to those who are destroying us?

When I say vandalism, it means that what they say against you is untrue. They really just want to ruin you. Here are some of the things we can do:

IGNORE THEM

Sometimes these people who are destroying us are helpless or just lack attention. The more you hit them, the more they will enjoy what they are doing. So sometimes the best thing to do is to just ignore them. They will also get tired. Especially if their allegations against you really have no basis and truth. Don’t give them the pleasure of annoying you. Don't show that you are disgusted. Just smile! When you are shouted at, be humble, answer calmly and don’t give time to people you know are NEGA.

CONFRONT THEM

When their vandalism is too damaging then it’s time to confront them, but in a peaceful manner. There is nothing wrong with intensive and peaceful talks. Also, when you talk to them properly, they will know and even understand why they are doing the wrong thing. Bring a friend who can be your witness or mediator.

EVALUATE YOURSELF

Sit down and reflect. Find out if it's just vandalism or fact. Let's take a look at our character and our temperament. How are the words coming out of our mouths. How do we treat the people around us?

Are we kind?

Are we gracious?

Are we sensitive?

These are just some of the questions we should ask ourselves.

Above all, the best thing to do with people who hurt us is to pray for them. Let us pass them on to GOD. Let us still be good to them. Love those who hate you. Suppose, ‘kill them with love’. I'm sure it will have an effect on them. Let's just let God fight for us. Let go and let GOD.

We cannot please everybody. There are and there are people who will ‘disagree’ with you and will not be happy with what you do. So if you ignore them and hit them, your effort will be wasted. Just focus on something else. It’s sad because no matter what you do, people always have a comment. You do something nice, they have a comment. You do something bad, of course - they still have a comment. People's feedback, criticism, and comment are inexhaustible. Most of the time, you don't know where else to place yourself. But this is all I can advise, as long as you are doing what is right and pleasing in God’s eyes, you have nothing to worry about.

Select and filter only the comments and things that help you. ‘Those‘ negative feeds ’, don’t entertain anymore. Stop thinking about it and take care of it in your heart and mind. It will just lower your self-esteem, make you bitter and revengeful-and most of all, it will only make your life miserable. It’s really not worth it. It’s better to focus your attention, energy, and time on the positive things.

Have a nice day my read cash family. Be blessed and be safe everyone and #rusty!