There are really people who will always finds fault to someone who only care about their business. They don't want to be happy for someone when they think they are overpowered by them.
Do you know a self-centered person, a very one sided person who don't know how to listen to anyone's suggestion and what's good for everyone?
I have knew someone who always finds fault at everyone and she don't agree most of the time to everybody's common good.
What are the signs that you are surrounded by these people and how are we going to avoid them?
Bitter person. A person who never be happy to anyone's achievement. They always feel pissed out by something happening around them. They are always complaining and can never be grateful and thankful to any simple good thing that happens to them.
Self-centered person. They are most likely to be self-worthy that they always brags about their achievements and seems to be a dramatic kind of person that they thought all reasons why things happens revolves around them. They always think about their welfare and they thought that they are always correct.
Attention seeker. They always seeks attention to anyone and always find fault to someone just to make their self better to anyone. They are likely to drag someone's name to fault just to make themselves good at anyone's eyes.
Crab mentality. They don't want to see their fellowmen reach success because they are much happier and feel better when they see someone's failure.
Jealous. They can be easily jealous to see someone's achievement and success. They are likely to disagree to any suggestions for the common good of everybody.
Difficult person.They complicate simple things, and worsen a scenario. They don't know how to handle situations and don't know to deal with a simple situation. They tend to make things and a simple problem a big deal. Simple things always a big deal for them. They are too difficult to deal with and don't know how to weigh things out.
How to avoid and deal with this people?
Avoid them. When you don't want to start a fight with them just to make things better, just avoid them or else never entertain them.
Clear your side. Tell them your side and clear your thoughts and never give them a chance to overlooked you as a person. Never allow them to define your worth as a person coz you know what you are capable of. You know your ability and you should earn respect.
Respect. We have to show respect in each other eventhough they don't show it. Never level your self to these kind of people because if you don't show them respect, then you don't respect yourself also.
Nevermind. Never mind about their business, just be concerned about yours. Just continue to do what you know is right and just think about the common good of everybody.
Focus. Just focus on your goal in life and never entertain those negative vibes around you. Do what you know is good for everybody and continue to achieve what is set to be achieved.
Pray. Pray for these kind of people that they may find peace of mind, get away the bitterness in life and learn to appreciate every little things that God has given to us.
Be thankful. Be grateful and thankful to God what has given and very little blessings that comes our way.
Contentment. Be contented of what you are now in your life. Focus your own goals and just focus on what you can do and what you will become.
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