Changes of Life after Marriage

Marriages are made in heaven and celebrate on earth. 

The lives led by people as individuals are vastly different from the lives they lead after marriage. Although single life has it's many vicissitudes, they are greatly altered by the addition of another party into the situation. Even the simplest things change drastically when you marry the special person in your life, such as eating, sleeping, and working. The changes in one's eating habits are altered by the addition of another person into their everyday lives. Before we marry someone and get ready to settle down into the life of a husband and wife, our eating habits more related to the life we lead on an every day basis. Eating takes place when our daily schedule permits or we take time because the need arises.

After marriage, that special person in your life decides what is best for you and a schedule has to be formed around their need to take care of their spouse. They want you to eat all the proper foods at the proper time in order to take care of you, whether you are hungry or like the food. This is all done out of love and the best of intentions. Although this whole process can be annoying, the best thing to do is to go along with it in order to avoid offending or rejecting their good intentions. The adjustments actually become more beneficial and pleasing than the initial complications created. Getting married also alters sleeping habits.

The changes made by the addition of a spouse can be the hardest part of adjusting to a marriage. While single, you went to bed and the whole bed was yours to roll around, lay in the most comfortable position, and no one woke you just to see if you were asleep. Once the marriage takes place; the bed suddenly becomes less than half its original size. The significant other in your life tends to stay as close to you as possible, as if you were going somewhere in the middle of the night.

The task of rolling over at night becomes a major ordeal. Even through all the changes that occur, it is nice to have a warm loving person next to you on a cold night. The most significant change made by your marriage is the working habits that are formed. Until you get married, your job mainly fits the likes and dislikes that presented themselves. Work was usually decided by the choices made at that specific time. When work became overwhelming, jobs could be changed with little worry about the results. Income was not the most important motivating factor. Although very little consideration is given to any part of work, this all changes when a spouse enters your life. Now suddenly every part of your employment becomes a major factor. The income with its future goals plays a part in how you plan the life that is to be led. The hours worked effect every day decisions.

The safety of the career chosen becomes a point to be stressed. Although work is a part of everyday life, it suddenly has become a major part of where the family you have chosen will be twenty years from the present. The choices we make are greatly influenced by the spouse we choose. Marriage is not easy but has more benefits than disadvantages if two people work together at making improvements. Even through the vicissitudes of problems you will find out later in life that you are a better person for all the change marriage has made in your life.

As one gets married, we start a whole new family, a complete shift from individualism, no more freedom and no more independence, all that is now translated into family and interdependence. One gets lots of responsibilities to fulfill as a couple, life of single person is one with lot of freedom; wherever they want to go, whatever they want to do they can do. They are flying in air like a bird fulfilling their all wishes and got happiness in doing stupid things. On the other hand married person have more and more responsibilities, they can't do what they want. They are like a bird whose wings are cut off. They also some time not able to fulfill their simple wishes as well; unless what ever they do they don't have any sense of happiness, but again it all depends on what kind of spouse one gets, couples can be extremely happy after marriage or may be full of discords as khalil jibran said "Marriage is either life or death, there is no between and betwixt" overall the first major difference between single and married life is a trasfer from independence to interdependence.

To everyone, please think twice before you marry someone..be knowledgable in every decisions you make..Hoping that after reading this you will understand what will happen for the changes of life after marriage..Thank you and God bless..😊

-PrincessLavinia :)