November 11, 2021To tie the knot with a man you love is also a symbol that you accepted the whole of him, what he has, and what he is.
You and your husband to be will attend many seminars before the wedding day, the purpose of it is to enlighten both of you on the reality of the world of being married. One of those seminars tackles the topic of "body contact" between you and your husband-to-be in short the make love scenario. Making love and satisfying each other needs is a responsibility. But not just making love but the love between you and your partner.
There is also a question there for women, that is the size matter to satisfy your needs?
And for men, is the performance matter to satisfy your needs?
Do you accept all her/his flaws?
Are you ready to enter the world of reality?
Are you ready to make a family? To have kids and a lifetime responsibility as parents?
You need to answer all those questions honestly because to marry is not a game, it is a lifetime commitment.
But why does making love is one of the reasons for break-ups of married couples or live-in partners?
Why does the husband or the wife cheat?
What is more important the love or satisfaction?
Many factors can also affect marriage life, maybe the time to each other, money issues, or infertility issues.
But let's talk about the make love topic of every couple. Some of the couples are happy with what they have in their relationship, they are contented with what their partner has in short they accepted the flaws of each other. But some are not
Making love is one of the recipes to make married life more colorful and happy. It is a symbol of unity between lovers.
But some of the husbands or wives are not satisfied with their making love scenario. Maybe on the performance of his wife or size of the her husband's manhood.
So the problems will start;
Cheating - The husband or the wife will cheat to fulfill their satisfaction or needs.
No appetite for making love - The husband or wife will refuse to make love with each other because they feel hanging instead to feel satisfied.
Comparing - The comparing thing topic will enter the scenario. You compare your husband, your wife, or your relationship to others.
So your relationship will be toxic that lead you both to decide whether you continue or to break apart from each other. Just because of satisfaction, but what about the love? Can you give up your relationship because you are not satisfied with each other?
Satisfaction is just a garnish in your relationship. The fundamental of that relationship is love that leads you to decide to marry each other.
Stop being selfish, try to talk with your husband or wife about that problem so both of you can find a better solution. The problem is cannot be fixed by another problem.
It is also better for both of you to go into love counseling therapy to fix everything.
Expert advice may help you to find more ways on how to fix your problem as a couple.
Don't ruin everything you have, fix everything you need to fix, talk to each other, communication is the best way to understand each other and accept both flaws.
Let God be the center of your relationship because he will lead you to the right path in life.
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Moral Lesson:
Don't let your temporary happiness burn you in hell and cause you a lifetime of pain. Be thankful and treasure everything you have.
Thank you for reading!