"Date your Spouse"

"To ask for a date with someone you like is where all relationships started"

But does dating still exist in married life? Is it an obligation?

Dating is one way of showing sincerity to the person you want to court to or to spend time with. Dating has different types;

• Date with your friend\s

• Date with your Boyfriend \ Girlfriend.

• Date with your husband or wife.

• Date with your parents.

But let's focus on the third type, the date with your husband or wife.

Some of the couples, when get married and have children forget to give time to their spouses.

Oldies once said that a relationship only has the "kilig" factor when you are still in the stage of boyfriend and girlfriend but when you are entering the married world that "kilig" will change or turn into responsibility first or family needs first.

The time to each other turns to responsibility mode. Finding work or working every day to sustain the primary needs of the family.

In marriage, the most important is not about the work you have, how much money you earn, your ego, and your pride as a family provider. It is all about;

• Time

• Connection

• Communication

• Partnership

• Love

These five factors states about are the keys to keeping your marriage strong and family complete.

Time

Giving time to your wife or husband is important. Please don't make your work your world.

Connection

Connection in marriage is not just about papers. Yes, you are connected in papers as husband and wife. But what about the emotional connection between you two? Connection in marriage can make the marriage couple bond together. It is the glue that holds your vows to each other.

Communication

Communication is one way of finding what is going on in your relationship as husband and wife. It is also the time to communicate or discuss problems, plans and to share positive thoughts. The best key to having healthy communication is to listen to each other.

Partnership

Marriage is a partnership between husband and wife. Equal partnership between husband and wife fosters a happy and strong marriage. It can bring the best in each other. Don't forget in marriage is a partnership so don't lie to your wife or husband, be open and trust each other. Don't carry problems on your own, open and share them with your spouse to find a better solution together.

Love

This is the most important of all factors. Without this marriage will not work. Marriage is useless without love. According to Mignon Mclaughlin "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person".

Having no time for each other can make your marriage unhealthy.

File for leave even for one day and spend it with your wife or husband. Having a job is a blessing but the true blessing is having a healthy marriage and family that love you unconditionally.

To date, your wife or husband doesn't need to have much money to spend, a place to travel, a wine to drink, a five-star hotel as a reception, and delicious food to eat. It is about how both of you regain the five factors in married life. The simple date will do.

Play this music and ask her/him to dance with you.

But the best formula is putting God in the center of your relationship. Because God will balance everything.

Let's spread LOVE❤❤❤

Thank you so much for reading!!

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Credit to YouTube.com for the music videos.