Dust smoke while breaking inside me, everything outside is milk port

When people see smiling and smiling disabled people in general, they think that they do not have any problems other than the problems they experience with their disability. They not only think but also rejoice.

Why should people with disabilities have other problems, right?

“Look how they laugh, smile and spread joy around. You would think that they are angels who have descended from the sky to the earth.” they think…

People think that if you fed the disabled people, did you protect them after putting them on, their problems were over and everything was complete...

Everything is now rosy for the disabled…

They live a beautiful life with one hand in oil and the other in honey, what they eat in front of them, what they do not eat, and what they eat and water from the lake...

In any case, apart from providing financial support such as home care fee and disability pension, property tax exemption, tax reduction, benefiting from free or discounted public transportation vehicles, meeting special education expenses, benefiting from state theaters free of charge and discounted in cinemas, reductions in water costs by municipalities. It helps in social supports such as etc…

What else? Come enjoy!

They neither grieve nor suffer, nor experience any other problem…

However, there is one thing they forget, which is that their problems do not end with feeding and dressing the disabled.

It should be known that people with disabilities are made of flesh and bones, like every human being, and that they are living beings with feelings, and that they have too many problems to count and list, apart from eating and drinking.

Apart from the well-known problems such as education, health, employment, social security, rehabilitation, accessibility and accessibility, auxiliary equipment, etc., despite being in the 21st century, they are still not accepted as a part of the society, they are not seen as individuals, their feelings, thoughts and ideas are not valued, respect It should also be known that there are hundreds of problems such as not being heard and respected, being seen as a consumer rather than a producer, being despised due to their different physical appearance due to their disability, being excluded and being treated as beggars, feeling depressed under the feelings of neediness and helplessness.

Years ago, when my wheelchair was new, we were joking, laughing and having fun while strolling with friends. While we were laughing and having fun like this, a passerby said, "You're welcome." Then he looked at it bitterly and laughed, "You say it's true, come sit in this chair for a while and taste how it is." said.

Yes, don't think that every smiling and smiling disabled person has no problems...

You don't know the storms that break inside us, as the proverb "The outside burns the hand, the inside burns me..."

One day, a very sad crying person came to the psychiatrist's examination and started to talk;

– My financial situation is good. I do not have a financial problem. I have no health problems. However, I have another problem.

-What's that?

-I can't cheer up. I'm constantly depressed. I just want to laugh, to laugh sometimes, to have fun. That's why I came to you.

–Friend, the truth of the matter is that this is not my area of ​​expertise. However, I can make a suggestion to you. A circus came across this street 10 days ago. There's also a clown.

I went. She was beautiful, especially that clown. I fell on the floor laughing, I had so much fun... I suggest you go to that circus and watch that clown in particular.

Thereupon, the man's face fell heavily and he said, almost in a whisper;

-That clown... that's me...

I tried to explain these in short and concise words with the lines "Dust smoke while breaking inside me, everything is milk port outside..." I wrote.

In short, every person living on this earth, whether disabled or not, has their own problems, troubles, pains, longings, hopes and dreams. It is nothing more than prejudice to form an opinion based only on the external appearance, attitude and behavior and speech of the person in front of you, without knowing the problems and troubles, the conditions in which he lives, the environment, education and cultural structure.