So, after so many days I am writing this article. Took a long break and noticed that so many things happened in this long break. Noticed many contests, giveaways, and so on. Nope, I did not read articles also. I needed a break from all this chaos. Now, at this very moment few ideas come up in my mind and I am just trying to spew out.
We all know very well how judgemental the society is towards women. Sometimes, I feel it is a curse born as a girl. Many perspectives, different kinds of views we have to endure. We need to take every step cautiously. If one step goes wrong then hundreds of criticism, questions against character stand up. The problem is it is not possible all the time to take every step with measures. One can not always keep all kinds of criticism in mind and live according to society's so-called norm.
If a girl becomes free to them, shares her views, minds with them, they take the girl as a random girl or vulnerable or as a girl with whom they can talk or do whatever they want.
If a girl hangs out much, people take her as a profligate.
If a girl takes a boy as a brother and shares things with him, if that boy is not good enough or good intentionally, take it as an advantage and think the girl as a random girl.
If a girl smoke in front of strangers or in a public place, people think her as characterless.
If a girl hangs out with boys, they think the girl can easily be flattered. They can easily seduce her.
And all these thinkings make the situation hard for the girl and she can hardly believe or be friendly with people. Nowadays it is hard to recognize people. They show that they are free-minded, they judge less but the actual situation is different. They take the girl for granted. And criticize or thinks something inappropriate behind the girl. It is hard to find real people. So, it is needed to take every step carefully which seems almost impossible. As we can not always control our emotions, desires. We need to choose friends, companies wisely. If we fail once we should try again and try to mend things. No matter what, at the end of the day your own being matters. So, hope for the best and try to be more careful. If one step goes wrong, it is wise to take the next step cautiously.