Are you sick of asking people to move on,
because they just don't understand how great your ex was!?
You just can't even imagine
being together with another girl?
To even refer to this
girl as your EX is painful?
Guess what, you 're exactly the same as
about 60% of the guys entering this forum.
Believe me, your ex is
nothing special (compared to other women).
You know deep down that your ex wasn't
as cool as you made her out to be.
But we are inherently, as humans,
drawn to that which withdraws from us.
Do you know how
anything can become more valuable?
Become
scarce.
The reason I did this bold is because
I want to make 2 points about it:
1.) Your ex seems so much more special than she did,
that you get so much less love and affection from her.
Can you not realize how easily the excitement will wear off,
and when you get her back, your desire for her will dissipate?
2.) Knowing what you already know, why
are you really so afraid to get scarce?
Why do you tell your ex that you will always
love her, and that you are the one for her?
That's just communicating that at any point she can come back to
you if her other choices don't work out-you 're their safety net!
That women are more drawn to men
whose feelings are ambiguous is a scientific reality!
So make yourself scarce,
for the last time!
Avoid being so
egotistical, and date others.
Unfollow your ex on all social
media platforms (and cover their posts).
Remove your
number from ex.
Either she'll get in touch and you can arrange a date (not a coffee date in
the evening, not with your ex) or someone else will come along better and you won't care.
Do you Just don't
think we understand your situation?
Every single man who is trying to get his
ex back said the same thing as you did.
I've been about 5 times in your place now, every girl was
"different" and "this PUA stuff wouldn't work on a girl like her" lol.
I eventually decided to man
up and my life changed.
We 're not asking you to ignore her and
move on, only because we can't bother helping you.
We tell you because it's the quickest way to get over her, but it just so happens that it's the most likely way to get her back.
Meanwhile you should concentrate on making
every area of your life better!
Here's a few tips on how to avoid being
such a pussy, and be the man you deserve:
Building up some muscle-working out makes
you healthier, proved scientifically, and fuck.
Pick up a new hobby / get back to an old
one-maybe you 've always wanted to learn how to play drums?
Maybe you've even done it, but for a
while you've just not had the opportunity ...
Switch to
it again!
Why don't you ever
do something you love?
Give yourself a makeover-I
mean, go all out.
Whiten your teeth, buy a
new clothes-laden wardrobe, correct your hairstyle.
See how much
that rockets your confidence.
Go for a deal-not always
this one, but why not?
Working hard can still be achieved, even
if a promotion isn't on the cards.
During the dull part of your
days it will keep you occupied.
Go out and get
to know new people!!
-- No excuses,
no more slut.
I don't want to hear any
bs about how "not ready" you are
You are an adult
so act like one.
Bang 5 girls and tell me how
amazing your ex still looks, I dare you!
TL;DR: Keep on
being a slut.
For other women, the best bargaining position is being able to walk away and
mean it, so get the f*ck on and be the guy you deserve to be.