Are you willing to change for the one you love so much? and why should you change is that a bit unfair but on the other hand having bad habits is not something anyone should live with or accept just because of a feeling, such a good feeling.
But you can't deny the way it makes you feel flustered and energetic. You can't pick yourself up in the morning but the moment that SPECIAL PERSON calls your name you immediately have the energy to clean the whole house inside and out.
You love who they are and not how they look like or what they did before you came along, you accept who they are and what they do, in fact, you adapt to their lifestyle by doing some things they do and maybe even changing some of your habits because of the way you feel around them.
You just want to touch them the whole time and hug and kiss until forever and every moment flies past like a second, it feels like a second but it's been the whole day maybe two. You study their face and skin how they move and what they like to say and then ...
you get hurt by some stupid decision they made or you made any way you just embarrassed and in pain and so you want to hurt the person you loved so much bringing us to the question
How much do you love her or him?
enough to forgive them and don't get me wrong forgiveness does not mean tolerance you don't need to tolerate the disrespectful person once you forgive them, just forgive and move on,
but are you willing to forgive and continue loving them as before?
What if you can't make love anymore (sex) as before or at all? will you still love them? will you still miss them what if all the money is gone and suffering is your daily exercise? will still love them with passion?
If you said yes it must hurt day in and day out and not feel the same energy in their response giving your fullness and receiving emptiness.
If no, just move on, let go and move on.
If you found your perfect match then why ask the question, go and love them as though the day might be the last.
