Special Child | Be your child's strength as a parent!
Your child is called a shawl child, because he is not as normal as ten other children. But is he unusual? Not at all! It is not up to you or anyone else to take it for granted that Bidhata did not make it normal. I just want to keep in mind that the child is a bit special in nature, he also needs special care. Here I am talking about the difficult struggle that you are constantly going through to give him this special care.
The parents of a special child spend their daily lives fighting. It is a war in which no one is a comrade except a life partner. In any case, the war becomes the mother of the child alone, especially in the context of this country, it is a very normal scene!
Some even think of giving up on this war. I want to leave everything and run away! But is it so easy to deny your child? Why should an innocent child be left alone in such a miserable life? Does the mind agree to do that?
If you are such a guardian, you will never feel very lonely. You will feel deported when you see ten more children in the neighborhood have the right to live in a healthy society and you are walking a different path with your child, or you are being forced to walk. Family members also turn away a lot of the time. The baby is shouting all day, making the house dirty, or lying still in one place and making himself dirty again and again, not everyone can take these things well. So should the child be deported? Never! Instead, they have to embrace their own life in exile as parents. So how will this exiled life go? Avoid the frustration of being alone, but adjust the range of your movement once again. You may have friends who have adopted your child very easily. In this special life of yours, those who have extended a helping hand, even if they are outsiders, are your relatives. Increase mobility with them. That's good for you, and good for your child.
 Someday you will be scared. A thousand fears about your child's life will not let you be normal. What will happen to the baby when you are not there? Will he ever be able to walk in society on his own? Will society ever accept him a little normally? One such worry will take away your sleep. Control your inner fears by talking to people close to you. Everything is not always in your hands. Then we need other people who can calm the mind a lot by reducing the bad feelings. Keep realistic thinking as much as possible. Whether the fear is unfounded, how logical, do not forget all this. One of your fears may be completely unfounded, at least check it out first. You would be reluctant to talk to a child about ten. It may be that you want to talk about it, but the mind is interrupted and you can't say anything! Because the baby is not completely healthy! Everyone will talk about him well?
How many battles that will always go on with your own mind! Exclude everyone who doesn't want to tell a child's story. Tell stories to those who love the baby. Those who are really willing to know about it.
Keep in touch with the parents of other children like your child. By doing so, possible solutions to many problems can be easily found. You will be very tired. Mentally and physically, in both cases. It is your job to discover what that is and to bring it about.
There is no release from any! Sometimes there may be someone to help you but not always. As I said before, you are the only soldier in the war, you have to accept it and stay on the ground. And that's why take care of yourself, take care of your body and mind. Your overall well-being is very much needed for your baby.
Strange as it may sound, it is true that you will never feel jealous of other people's children! It's normal to see a two-year-old doing things that your six-year-old can't do. This bad feeling will give birth to jealousy in your mind. You have to learn to handle this thing! It is your job to discover what that is and to bring it about.
How many more problems that will be your daily walking companion, and it may be difficult for anyone else to think! Yet life will end this way. By looking at the child's face, you will overcome all obstacles. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
