We can teach our little ones not to touch the fire, to cross the road, to climb stairs, to read and write, to recite rhymes, and so on. The issue of body safety comes to mind a little late.
I think - still the baby is small enough, I will say when it is bigger. Many parents never talk about these things. Today's parents seem to have become quite aware, however, that our childhood was completely different.
Surprising but true Children under the age of 5 also admit to sexual harassment. At least one in four (possibly more) people under the age of 18 are abused. Most of these are caused by child acquaintances, including children of the same age.
Some people think we are good because we think the child is safe within those boundaries. But seeing someone good in our eyes does not mean that he or she will be safe for the baby. Again, not everyone is bad. It is also inappropriate to deprive the child of everything and keep him at home as there may be danger. If we don't learn to adapt to the hostile environment, even if we grow up, there is a possibility of falling into these dangers. All we can do is to make the child aware, train him up and keep his eyes open.
It's a lot like a motorbike, I don't stop for fear of an accident but I wear a helmet for safety. Things that can be taught right now:
### limb_property_name_recognition-
Teaching the wrong name can be confusing. For example: if the vagina is identified as the bottom, if the baby comes and says that someone has touched his bottom, then the incident may lose importance.
### Recognize_private_part_ -
The child needs to recognize his private parts and explain that these are private reasons to keep them hidden from everyone. Clothes can be opened only in front of the doctor without parents only if need be checked.
### Body_boundaries -
You have to teach that no one can ever touch any part of the body. Another important thing to note is that you can't even touch someone else's private part. Most of the time sexual abuse starts with touching children.
### Don't Hide -
There are two ways children are encouraged to keep abusive. The perpetrator may say, "We will keep this a secret. You will not tell anyone. If you do, I will never play with you again." He can also say with a threat, for example - if you say so, I will say that this was your plan and everyone will think you are very rude, gossip, beat you. - Even if it is something like that, it is as if the children have to explain it without hiding it in any way. ### Nude pictures of children are also traded. Someone should be warned not to take pictures of their private parts or nude photos.
###_Coming_in_the_ Danger-
Most children find it uncomfortable to say 'no', especially when it is not possible for young children to protest against older and strangers. However, if you feel discomfort in someone's behavior, you can understand it. In case of any uncomfortable situation, the parents or anyone else can be asked to move or give some other code to avoid the danger.
### BodyTouch
_and_Experience- Bodytouch can sometimes give the feeling of tickling or feeling good. If only good touch and bad touch are meant, then children may become confused when dealing with the situation because not all touches may be painful or bad. That's why it's convenient to use the word 'secret touch' when referring to them. The shape of a bad person can be like a cartoon villain in the minds of children. Therefore, it should be specially stated that the rules of
"#Secret_Touch"
are the same for everyone. It is better to explain with open discussion. Otherwise they may forget. No one is born a criminal. Everyone is an innocent child, someone like us is a darling child. There are many more factors behind becoming a criminal including environment, education, growing up, family education, society, state, loss of values, loss of conscience. This is our responsibility too. It is our responsibility to ensure a healthy, beautiful and safe environment for the child we have brought into the world to grow up. As if his childhood was not chained, it was as if he had a wide childhood like flying free in the infinite sky.
