First of all Why do you Love? for what reasons?
Do you love because you want to be happy then why don't you go and find a hobby like play games, go travel or go hang out with your friends.
If your not ready for marriage then your not ready for dating because lot's of people today getting involved in dating at early age. We all know that this is the reason why they are Teenage pregnancies then their partner will suddenly disappear and sometimes they didn't even know who the father of their baby.
What I'm pointing out is dating is a very serious matter and we should take it seriously. And If your not ready for marriage don't go dating otherwise why are you dating for fun? Do your hobbies that gives you fun. Dating is not a game. Today other's go dating to have fun, to experience sex and to feed their curiosity.
Set a standard for your self that getting into marriage is a responsibility. You must know each other first because most of couples today is getting into marriage fast then a few months or years there's a hidden attitude that they don't know that each other have. It will results to arguing and conflicts on their relationship.
Falling in love fast with your partner it becomes difficult for you to recognized the traits of your partner especially the hidden traits that may cause you to be incompatible.
These things you must consider before getting married:
First is know your partner well or know each other well,
Always involve the brain when choosing a decision, not the heart because marriage is no joke !
Introduce yourselves to each others family. It's like bringing two families and lives together. marriage is a commitment that you both agree to be with.
You must accept all the good and bad traits of your partner before getting married.
Ask this question to yourself before getting married, are you compatible? do you see your self being with this person for the rest of your life?
And Financial Needs , Do you both earn money that can provide your needs such as House rent, clothes, foods, water and electric bills and etc. because getting into marriage means your finances are combined.
You must both agree on having kids, because if one of you don't want to have a kids definitely the marriage will not work.
Plan how many kids you want and making sure that both of you can support it.
And you must put God at the center of everything.
Considering these things may avoid having a broken relationships or family. Let's be responsible to make our family stronger.
Marriage is not a joke. It is a way to strengthen the bond of two people who are inlove. I love those conditions : "First is know your partner well or know each other well,
Always involve the brain when choosing a decision, not the heart because marriage is no joke !
Introduce yourselves to each others family. It's like bringing two families and lives together. marriage is a commitment that you both agree to be with.
You must accept all the good and bad traits of your partner before getting married.
Ask this question to yourself before getting married, are you compatible? do you see your self being with this person for the rest of your life?
And Financial Needs , Do you both earn money that can provide your needs such as House rent, clothes, foods, water and electric bills and etc. because getting into marriage means your finances are combined.
You must both agree on having kids, because if one of you don't want to have a kids definitely the marriage will not work.
Plan how many kids you want and making sure that both of you can support it.
And you must put God at the center of everything."