1 Corinthians 7:32-35 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
* live your life the way you may please the lord
* let your attention be to the teaching teaching of the Lord
* Jesus did not marry despite how much women are close to him
* Paul Apostle too did not marry, not because they don't want to, but because they care for the things of the Lord
* it is even more convenience to serve God when you are single you.