Why Suicide is the Only Option - Concluding Part
Why Suicide is the Only Option? This is the concluding part...
Do you know that everyone in a way or the other have thought of suicide before, though it wasn't obvious as it were we all have someway? Most especially when things turn in a way that frustrated our effort, some will say "I just felt like dying" but the amazing thing was that we snap out of it instantly without giving it a chance to domicile our heart. We all chose to let our frustration melt like wax till things began to become normal or even better again. There is more to life than just giving up, you never can tell what good awaits you after a painful experience. The moment the pleasure of achievement or greatness comes, that instant we forget our pain.
Suicide is a real deal to tackle or kick against by all means. I have come to know that it doesn't walk alone, mechanisms or agents are working in partnership with suicide😜. The agents are the reason why suicide is the only option. These mechanisms if not properly managed or control suicide would sometimes be the only option. Every one of us has one way or the other been afflicted by these agents one way or the other. We can't deny their effects on us during those moments. Moreover, the fact remains that they will always attack us in time to come but the way out is to guard our heart with all diligence because out of it comes issues of life.
Let me give you five agents among many others that project why suicide is the only option so that you may be aware of their enterprise in future.
Fear (Fear of the unknown) - Many people in the world today don't have a clue of what life is all about, all they know is they are human beings just here on earth. This kind of people can easily be manipulated mentally for evil works such as suicide bombers or on suicide missions and the likes. The other kind of people are those who have involved themselves in one thing or the other which does not guarantee a pleasant return, so they make up their mind that it won't go well so the best option is to commit suicide in order not to experience the foreseen harm. When fear of the unknown takes over the mind of any individual, such person is half dead already. I pray we will not find ourselves in such a state. Amen. However, for those that fall in this category the way out is to create a sense of hope in them for a better tomorrow.
Depression - This is another agent that project that suicide is the only option in the mind of its victims. There are so many things happening around us that are depressing but we should not allow it to affect us or get into our minds. When depression takes hold in the life of an individual, such person will have nothing to regard not live for rather hope to end the journey of life as soon as they can. We all have heard of several cases of depression and its result on such individuals. The way I feel it can be avoided or overcome is to guard our heart as said earlier and purposely choose to be happy. When things don't warrant you to be joyful find other means to be, don't give room for depression before suicide is suggested.
Failure - This is another agent that has successfully ruined the lives of many to suicide. Many because of failure in one thing or the other ended their lives thinking there is nothing else to live for in life. Just as the one I talked about in the previous article on suicide, because she failed an examination and had an extra year to graduate she decided to end her life. Failure has battled with everyone in one way or the other but we all conquered that is why we are still here living our lives to the fullest. When failure conquers the heart of man, it has this way of suggesting the unthinkable to the mind of man. This is where such individual sometimes sees suicide as the only option just like Lobo in the movie titled the 3Idiots🤪. The end of a failure is when you fail to continue, the way out is to try again, not to give up and have the focus to succeed despite all odds. Failure is not the end but a means to get to the end.
Anxiety - This is another agent that poison the mind of man to choose suicide as the way out of their worries. We all worry about one thing or the other but many of us always wave it off our chest facing the reality till our expected end surfaces. Several individuals are not lucky as we are, their worries has graduated into something else that is beyond mental imbalance which eventually projects suicide as an option. When we get worried about anything, we have a choice to make either we let it overwhelm us or we let it off our mind by engaging in something inspiring or motivating. We are to encourage, inspire or motivate anyone found wanting of anxiety.
Challenges - This is another agent of suicide, it is either I do it or die attitude. Many of us are going through several challenges now and even then but have decided to face them till the end. When challenges before you are projected to do or die, many of us end up choosing to do it rather than dying but some others do not have that grace to face the challenges point to point. Challenges make us strong than the way we use to be each time we choose to tackle them. People who often commit suicide due to the challenges life throws at them are not worse than we are but it was the choice they chose that seem best to them that differentiate us from them. Always encourage people going through challenges, don't add to their predicament because you never can tell how far they have been fighting to survive. The way out is to face such challenges with all we got hoping for the best always without giving any thought to suicide. Challenges are bridges that lead to two destinations either the one that will make you or break you but the choice to that destination is in your hands I make.
As I conclude, there are other agents which you can think of that can bring about suicide but I'm sure of these suicide agents above. Never stop being a fighter because the mind is a battlefield indeed. If you must win, you have half won in your mind and if you must lose it is half done in your mind. Proverbs 4:23 Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life. I believe Justice has been served on this topic why suicide is the only option. My question is, what came to your mind first when you saw this topic?🤐😜 maybe this guy is planning something close to suicide😟hmm? Do you know it could be true because I was battling with these agents I mention above but I am an overcomer always? I will live fulfilled and nothing will cut my life short without fulfilment of purpose here on earth. Be encouraged and inspired today.
Suicide is never an option!