We do not have to worry about what we have done whether they interpret it as wright or wrong. We do not have to think a lot before doing something because thinking twice is enough. We do not have to feel sorry to someone about the damage we have done every time. We do not have to be upset to ourselves just because we commit mistake. You everything is normal and there's noting wrong for making wrong. Because we are not born perfect, we are people living to be perfect. If you have done mistakes, just move on because you do not have to dwell with since it is just your mistake not your definition.
Mistake don't define us, it refine us.
We should forget the mistakes we have done because it has no help but always remember the lesson we learned through the results of the mistakes we have done.
Most of the time after doing mistakes all of us experiencing judgment of other people around us who witness what we have done. That leads us to minor depression by thinking that we cannot go on and move forward because we are looser and looser have no chance to have the same opportunity as winners. It's a no no. As a person you must bear in your mind that you are not perfect and everyone around you are also not perfect. If the will judge you do not mind them, judgment is always negative you don't have to consider it in your life. You should always focus into positive side. Instead of minding judgment, mind the result of what you have done. In short, mind yourself. Mind yourself by asking these questions that can surely help you to overcome your worries.
What I have done? Find out what mistake or mistakes you have done.
What is the result of what I've done? Take a look onto the result of that mistakes, always expect for negative effects than can affects someone mentally or emotionally.
What are the lessons that I learned to the mistakes I've done? After taking a quick look of the result, try to figure out the lessons it can brings to you.
We are not perfect, but we can be perfect. Do not let judgments from others affects you, if they cannot help you to find ways to grow at least help yourself to grow. It doesn't mean that you made it wrong for the first time, you will made it wrong again until the last time. Do not define yourself through the numbers of mistakes you made but define yourself through the lessons you learned through your mistakes.
We can be broken after committing mistakes, of course we are. Aren't we? But whatever damage it is caused to us, we do not have to worry because we can undergo refining. Yes we are, only if we choose to learn from our mistake.
Always remember that mistakes do not define us, it refine us.