The power of influence

THE POWER OF INFLUENCE

      Influence means a whole lot to those who want to achieve or attain some levels of success in life. If you critically take notice of people, men and women who command influence in this realm, you'll discover that there are some SIGNIFICANT things that they constantly engaged in. Men don't just become influential, they engage some principles of life to attain that level of influence.

What is influence?

Influence is an ability to involve persons or circumstances extremely power based on dignity.

Read it again. To become an influencer there are things you must possess.

Let me mention but a few...

1. ABILITY TO ALLOW MEN TO DECIDE

    You don't become influential by forcing men to follow you, they are not daft as you think. So forcing men to follow you will surely frustrate you in the long run. Men can only follow you when they've tested you enough, and they are fully convinced that you're the right person to follow.

2. ABILITY TO RECOGNIZE, AND SOLVE THEIR NEEDS.

     If you don't have anything to offer to men, they will never follow you. You can't have Influence over them when you're not solving their problems. Your parents have Influence over you because ever since you were born, they've been the ones feeding you. You've been staying under their roof, so they can make decisions for you as long as you are still under their roof and eating their food. Men can bend the knees for you when you have Influence over them.

FIRST IMPRESSION

      Most people still don't understand that first impression matters a lot, they see it as nothing. My dear, listen to me if you want to be great if you want to build confidence in men about your personality. So, an impression following this content or context is the kind of picture, appearance, the idea you display in the sight of men. Hence, the first impression is the first appearance you depict or display in the sight of people or your followers.

Come with me. So many people have lost valuable men in their lives because of FIRST IMPRESSION, the way they first appeared made men either reject them or run away from them.

Let me sight an example.

      There was a young man who claims he knows how to sew(design clothes). This young was given materials to design, a few days later he finished designing the clothes and they were all delivered to their respective owners. Days gone by, his customers started bringing back the clothes on the basis that they were not well designed, and that he didn't do a good job. This young man was so full of himself, he has not even mastered the art of fashion designing, but he went ahead to collect materials that he can't design all because he requires money.

Now, with this kind of impression that he has depicted in the sight of his customers, they might never bring materials for him to design again, even when he has fully mastered the art of fashion designing. My brethren, don't try to venture into what you've not mastered. There's still time to sit down and learn.

LEARN TO SIT DOWN PATIENTLY AND UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO STEP INTO. The first impression registers in the heart of men forever, until proven otherwise.

SOME TIPS ABOUT LIFE

In this life everyone wants to succeed, nobody wants to be mediocre or unsuccessful. We all desire good things in life and no one wants to relate to the bad side of life.

Let me ask you a question...

Do you believe you can persuade good aspects of life, by just hoping or guessing about it? Never!! Not on this planet, we discover ourselves.

  If intentions were steeds all drifters will ride on it.

  Read it again!👆

Sometimes some people will sit down and wish they were wealthy from morning till the sun goes down, without planning or acting.

Listen to me!

The ability to become wealthy and to enjoy the good things of life. Release corn of wheat plummets to the floor and perishes it abideth lonely.

Let me explain this

    In every seed lies the potential to produce a tree, which will, in turn, produce many seeds, but if that seed is not planted, it will not produce any tree. So also, in you lies the potentials to be wealthy and if you refuse to work out those potentials, you will surely remain a beggar forever! Don't expect any man to come to help you achieve your goals or make you wealthy, because every man is busy running his race.

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