How to develope self-confidence

HOW TO DEVELOP SELF-CONFIDENCE

One of my teachers would say: "If you don't say I am, nobody will say you ARE."  It's high time you work on your confidence, you are allowed to use the following hacks:

VALUE YOUR NAME:

How much do you cherish your name? How do you feel whenever your name is mentioned? You have to fall in love with your name. Garnish your name and serve the world with it. Your confidence will boost once you start appreciating your name.

I get mad when I see youngsters name themselves after celebrities. We have so many copies of MESSI, RONALDO, BEYONCE, DANGOTE e.t.c.

It's good to associate yourself with good things but that should in no way convince you to use other people's name over your name. You can also give your name a name. Do you want to develop confidence? Appreciate your name and sing it loud.

AFFIRM TO YOURSELF:

We do tend to act in line with our self-image. Another sure way of developing your confidence is to change how you view yourself. Make great affirmations.

Commitments are augmenting affidavits that we say to ourselves. Lift yourself, friend. Say: "I have confidence, I am worthy to live, I am talented, I am born to win" just to mention a few.

Affirmations work best when they are said aloud. Repeat these positive statements until your brain can no longer help but accept your new personality. We tend to believe in what we say to ourselves more. You can create your affirmations, by the way, the above are just examples.

DO THOSE THINGS THAT CHALLENGE YOU:

Enough of "I can't do this" It is time to face your fears. Challenging your doubts and self-limiting beliefs will not only develop your confidence but improve your Emotional quotient(EQ).

Dare to get out of your comfort zone and break that shell. By doing something that threatens you every day and gathering confidence, in no time your self-confidence will begin to soar.

ADOPT AN EQUALITY MENTALITY:

Most people suffering from low confidence see others as better or more deserving than them. Shift from that mentality to an equality mentality.

See yourself as being important as others, you also matter.

Let go of this perception and start playing your cards. Like anyone else, you are special too. Put this in mind and see how your confidence rises to infinity.

CARE FOR YOURSELF:

Self-confidence revolves around physical health, emotional and social health. It is the combination of these that can tell if you are likely to develop low confidence or not.

It is difficult to feel good about yourself if you dislike your physique or constantly have mood swings.

You can correct this by making time to engage in exercise, eating healthier and working on your sleeping habits. To top it, dress according to your taste. Do whatever compels you and your corpse to realize decent. This too will boost your self-confidence.

ARE YOU FULL?

You already retain everything that you crave in vitality. The Car that you want to drive is available likewise the mansion, the country that you would love to visit, the food that you would love to eat, everything is!

The question now is; are you available? You can't be available when you are full. You can't win when you are already full. You have to be hungry.

In Les Brown's world, the hungry get in control of everything. They possess beautiful-fast cars, houses and more.

Only those that are not full keep eating. You are sleeping because you are not hungry. When you are hungry, you don't sleep, you grind. You fall in love with 4:00 am.

When you are hungry you don't wait for opportunities, you pursue opportunities instead.

Your hunger is what keeps telling you not to give up, not to say "I can't!"

Let me ask you again, are you full?

When you are full you don't mind who you move with, you move with everybody but when you are hungry you move with like-minded persons.

When you are full, you read romantic books and neglect other good books but when you are hungry you read Elon Musk's Biography.

Hunger separates the lion from other animals. The lion is always hungry and that is why it hunts its prey and feed on them. Do you have prey right now? If you do, pounce on it!

You don't waste time when you are hungry, you don't procrastinate, you germinate greatness.

When you are hungry, you sign up for courses, attend seminars and feast on wisdom but when you are full, you play games on your phone and end your day.

You see hunger is powerful, hunger is what separates winners from losers and the naysayers from those who say "damn YES!"

Are you hungry? If you are, I want you to get up and plan how you will spend your day tomorrow right now.

I want you to become a lion. You don't have to be fast, smart or big because the cheetah is the fastest animal, the fox is the smartest animal and the elephant is the biggest animal but they are all topped by the lion. Become a lion and stay hungry!

I dare you to do better.

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