Today I am the mother of one child. 8th September, 2019 I became the mother of one child. The feeling of being a mother that day is the best experience of my life.
Being a first mother is a different experience in the life of every woman. A new addition to life. Ten months pass the ten-day gestation period, when every mother sees her child for the first time and her feelings cannot be expressed in words. It gives a new look to women's life. Proud to be a mother.
The time of pregnancy is different for every woman. Pregnancy seems to be a little too long for every woman due to various problems. The last time waiting to see the child does not seem to want to cut anything. When will that day come? However, as a first mother, how to feed and take care of a newborn baby is unknown. If she is unable to fulfill her mother's responsibilities, there is uncertainty and anxiety. It is not possible to have an idea about the next life before becoming a mother. That time is even more difficult for working women. Many times maternity leave is not available for six months. Just as it is difficult to adapt to a new life at the beginning of maternity leave, it is also difficult to go back to work at the end of the holiday with oneself, fighting with the environment. Being on strike for a long time, you have to lose many opportunities in the workplace.
After six months, it is difficult to leave the child and go back to work. The mother is always worried about the child.
Postpartum depression is very common but most mothers are not aware of it. Depression works in the mother until a few weeks after the baby is born! That is why the mother herself is surprised. So much trouble, so much waiting for that child. Why is his mind depressed today after getting close to him? What kind of mother is she? Thinking about these things made his mind worse. She cannot express her feelings to everyone. What will the society say, what will people think? Postpartum depression is caused by changes in various hormones. Sometimes it lasts up to a few months. However, if it lasts for a long time, it is important to take the advice of a doctor. What a mother needs most at this time is full time and support from the family, the father of the child. Opportunity to express all feelings to your spouse. Being able to pass this time is a difficult test for a mother.