Arab Women and me!
Arab woman and me
She had a two-month-old baby. She went to the washroom to change the pampers. I joined her for help. After washing the baby, she performed a complete ablution. This was a new practice for me. It is unthinkable to perform ablution on such small children.
Many of his works were separate. She started feeding her two-year-old daughter by putting each bite in her mouth and saying Alhamdulillah. She was engrossed in the children with complete oneness. I was observing these mothers and children with the same oneness.
She lived in Yemen. She taught Arabic in college. Here she became friends. With sincerity and love, the reason for this friendship was Arabic language. She knew broken Urdu and English. It is as if we were thirsty for language.
A few days later she came home at my invitation. Her style was different and I was eager to learn.
As soon as she entered my house, she was giving thanks again and again. She started asking what had happened. Thankfully, she escaped the blast and firing. Our media is full of negative aspects. We are happy with the consolation.
By paying special attention to children, the virtue of Arab mothers is that they are very caring of children.
After leaving the children, she turned to me saying apology.
The first of the hardly stopped questions asked why do you perform ablutions on such a small child. His answer was to give a new direction to thinking. She said that a child learns everything at that age. He lays the foundations of his personality. Every concept given at that age matures and becomes attached to the personality of the child.
The first reason is that I want to put purity in its foundations, so I have made it a habit of ablution from the first day.
It is hoped that he will remain pure till the end and his limbs will be enlightened on the Day of Resurrection.
The second reason is that it is innocent. There are also attacks of demons. They will be protected.
He immediately asked the second question. It is understandable to give thanks to Allah once during the meal. He did not understand every word. He smiled and explained.
My dear friend, the Lord who made us specially put all creatures in our service. We can't even give thanks. This snack that we put in our mouths is given in our hands after going through many stages. Thanksgiving is obligatory with every breath.
I am trying to instill a sense of gratitude in the children. He mentioned the blessings of Allah in such a way that he bowed his head in shame.
We are people who grow up in a complaining environment. We are always angry with each other. The first thing I learned was to be grateful.
He did not know the time of taking many lessons of life sitting in front of him.
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