Danger of Hate

Hate and love are mood pairs in interpreting something, responding to various events and pinning feelings on a field. Choosing between them is essentially a dilemma of a protracted conflict between thoughts and emotions.

The turmoil of the heart and mind makes hatred cannot be one hundred percent overpowering a person, as well as love that may not be full for one heart and a name. Because hate and love fight for the throne, they do not spill over each other, but hate is always poured into the heart, and love that dominates will strangle hate.

A heart that has meaning is always driven back and forth by feelings of hate and love, which of the two will dominate. When hate becomes king, love shrinks, so the mouth of love dries up.

Mom and dad, let's measure hate and love, children will grow up to be figures in the future depending on the hate and love they get from their parents.

WRONG CHILD

Write a poem "stepmother only loves my father, while my father is by my side, I am adored and pampered, but when my father leaves, I am insulted and abused, like an unfilial son, he does not care about me anymore" This song popularized by Iis Dahlia shows how unbalanced the hatred and love of a mother for her child.

The hatred of parents towards children gives birth to cornering points of view, there is no truth that is seen in the child, there is no good done by the child. In other words, whatever the child does is wrong in the eyes of the parents, no matter how careful the child is considered disrespectful by the parents.

A child is born who is dubbed the wrong child, for parents the wrong child is a child who breeds hatred, whatever he does is wrong, silence is wrong, doing something that is not right is considered wrong, wrong and wrong.

DANGER OF HATE

Nurturing feelings of hatred and then pouring it onto their children, has multi-effects, for parents it makes their hearts cloudy, such as seeing an object blocked by glass that is dusty, blurry, has lots of shadows and doesn't get the authenticity of the view.

Once a young mother said to her husband "Honey, the mother who is in the apartment next door, always drying clothes in a dirty state, clearly visible on white clothes with spots, not clean enough to wash them"

Curious, because his wife repeatedly told him every time she saw her neighbor drying clothes. Secretly the husband was watching carefully, observing his neighbor's clothesline "what my wife said is true" he muttered in his heart, but his heart was getting more curious.

"Dear, what we saw today, that our neighbor has washed his clothes clean, looks bright red, the blue is very dazzling, our neighbor is amazing today", the husband gently caressed his wife while saying, "Look at this, dad has I happened to take a photo, it turned out that our glass from the outside had a lot of dust lodged in it, my father cleaned it, the result was sticking... the glass became clear and could see the outside world perfectly"

The hatred that is fostered will become a wall and even a formidable fortress, children who are seen from the point of view of hatred will always see their ugliness and mistakes. How can parents give gifts to their children, when hatred is in their hearts? Can love flow freely in the integration of hate?

The real impact made by parents who have a hateful view of their children is blaming each other between partners, husbands blame their wives and wives always defend themselves or vice versa. So that the child does not have a figure to choose from, the child becomes a person who is divided between father and mother.

Likewise, children who are raised with hatred will become barren, dry in their feelings, empty of taste and always dizzy thinking.