Relationships are a lot of work, but the reward is worth it. When you take time to invest in your relationship and focus on what makes you both happy, it will be much easier to make things work out. It’s important that both people in the relationship do their part, but there are also some rules for how you should act when things go wrong. Here’s what I would consider when looking at all sides of this topic:
1) Who should initiate contact
The person initiating contact should always feel like they have control over the situation; nothing is more frustrating than not knowing if someone cares enough to try again after something goes wrong. That being said, if one person has been making all of the efforts, it is okay for the other person to be the one who makes the next move.
2) what you should do if something goes wrong
If a situation arises that makes you both feel unsafe or afraid, you should put your feelings aside and consider how this will affect the relationship. It’s important to communicate with each other after a fight and let your partner know that things are okay now so they don’t have to worry anymore! In order to work out relationship issues, it is important to take responsibility for anything you may have done throughout the fight.
3) Be nice
No one likes someone who can’t control their emotions and throws a fit whenever things don’t go their way. In order to have a successful relationship, you should be able to separate your emotions from the situation and try not to blame each other for anything that happens within it.
4) Rules about how you should feel about each other
A relationship is all about mutual trust; if one person doesn’t trust the other enough then there will be problems in the future. If someone does something that makes you uncomfortable, like lying or betraying your trust in some way, you need to tell them instead of harboring those feelings inside because they could ruin an otherwise good relationship.
5) Rules about what things really mean
Sometimes people put too much stock into things that don’t matter, like someone not texting back right away. It’s important to not let little things irritate you or complicate the relationship, otherwise, it will never be as strong as it could be. You should always take into account what someone does for you and how they make you feel because that is all that matters in a relationship instead of trying to find something wrong with each other.
6) Rules about ending the relationship
Even if there are problems in your relationship, ending things can sometimes be easier said than done. If one person doesn’t know what the other one wants out of the relationship, then there are issues on both sides. The right decision will depend on each situation so do whatever feels right to you at the time; no two situations are ever alike! No matter the circumstance, making sure that your partner is happy will always be worth more than what you get out of it.
Well, that is just an ideal relationship but I think in reality, most of the relationship encounters difficult times, misunderstanding and sometimes turns into fight. It is really hard when this things you have mentioned above is absent. Sad to think, if only one of the two of you has its component it will not work.. but sometimes when you are in the middle of relationship both of you learn to adjust.