Real Love

Date: 19/10/2022 

What is love? The question is strange! What do you think love means? What is meant by this word! I will say in my opinion, love is a type or a kind of feeling. Feelings like pain or disgust or disgust! A similar feeling.

Almost all people have the ability to understand this feeling more or less. Some understand at a young age, some at an older age. Someone understands at the end of life.

Girls between the ages of eight and thirteen are called adolescents and boys between the ages of nine and seventeen are called adolescents. During this time different changes can be observed in a boy and a girl. Again, people of one gender are attracted to the other gender. This is the natural law.

And without understanding the name of this strange attraction, many call it "love". Is it really called love? Never! Love is a strange feeling. When will love be born on whom? He will not understand it himself. Will be born suddenly. Sudden restlessness. Suddenly remembered his words. And suddenly a strange desire to hold him close.

Yes! Love is like that. Love does not see the attraction of someone's beauty! Love is seeing a person's heart. Suddenly love falls on someone's imagination. As long as he is with you, in front of your eyes! Just then you will have peace of mind. But when you don't see him talking, your mind starts to wander. A strange feeling.

On a strange day, on a strange time with you and your loved ones. That person may be very familiar to you and sometimes may be a complete stranger. It could be a stranger whom you have never met in your life. Again, there may be acquaintances whom you could not even imagine that you could fall in love with.

Goodness doesn't buy love. Most of the people love bad people, dream of making him good and do it, so they suffer a lot. The problem is, he takes this sadness as love. But at the end of the day, sadness is just sadness, not love at all. But who will explain this extreme truth to him! Such people seem to be born to suffer. No, I said wrong! No one is born to be sad, but some don't want to get rid of it or don't even try properly. Many people don't even try. Maya is more in them. He pretends to die.

On a strange day you may meet that person you love. Maybe at someone's wedding, maybe on someone's death day or at some unknown place where you weren't supposed to go but you went. And fell in love with that unwanted person.

It's strange that you meet that person at some point. Maybe she's wearing an untidy saree while going to eat. Sometimes the tears of the nose and the tears of the eyes. Sometimes, in the hot sun, he sees his tired look alone in his sweat. Chahni bowed her head in shame. In fact, why not see the people you love anyway? Why don't you see anyway? You will want to love him.

To be honest, it is difficult to find the words to express what love is. No writer can explain it. I don't have either.

True love or infatuation, how to understand?

Many people confuse these two things, true love and attraction to someone. As a result, many people do not understand whether they are in a relationship because of love or infatuation. When the relationship gets old, if the talking gradually decreases, then you have to understand that it was not love. It was infatuation.

It is normal that people have and will always be infatuated with new things, but it cannot be called love. Because infatuation is temporary and love is long lasting. When it gets old, there is no fascination, it ends.

Careless, neglect increases. Just as the favorite expensive clothes do not find a place in the closet when they become old, they fall into a corner due to neglect. If the relationship is ever like this, then you have to understand that the infatuation has passed. In this state, no one can be like before even if they want to. Even if they want to, they cannot.

At one time, there is no more relationship between themselves. Because there is no more love in a couple.

Such a rusty relationship cannot be sustained on the table for long by rubbing it. Rather, compromise should be taken out of such a relationship before resentment sets in.

Even if it causes temporary pain, at least the respect of both of them will remain intact.

If you get into a relationship with someone out of infatuation, it doesn't take long for that relationship to break. So before getting into a relationship with someone, it is important to make sure that you really love them or it is all just an illusion. You can understand this matter only in 3 ways

1/ Many love the first look! Actually it is not love but infatuation or infatuation. In this case, a good feeling or a crush can be created.

And all these fall under attraction. When you truly love someone, you see not only their outer beauty but also their inner beauty. So there is no love at first sight, no matter what.

2/ Do you think about the person you think you love all the time or only when you are not busy or alone? If the first answer is no and the second is yes then you are just attracted to her. Love is not made yet. When you fall in love with someone, you will remember them all day long. Not just when you're alone.

3/ If you are not worried about the problems of the person you like, but you like to be around him, this also falls under the category of infatuation or attraction. If you love, you would try at any cost to help your loved ones and solve their problems. Not only in happiness, but also in sadness, being by each other's side is the name of love.

We are confusing our needs with Sattika's love. We also know that a human being has two types of needs.

• 1. Physical

• 2. Emotional.

And in the midst of building various relationships, people try to satisfy the common china. Where will love really come from where there is so much love? And how do you know what love really is?

True love is true love when we freely call it when we freely do anything to be completely alone. I love birds and can never keep birds in cages.

I love birds so can never sell birds to others. I love birds so I can never take away their individual freedom. I love to eat chicken so I can never tell them when they are cooked that I love chicken.

I like you so I can never say I love you. You are beautiful now so I can't tell you that I love you.

All in all, true love is what we call it when we do something for someone completely freely, completely, completely, completely, with zero demand. Then it is true love.

Finally, if true love arises in someone's mind, he will no longer be with you. Because love knows no age. Love knows no caste, religion, color. There is no distance in love, thousands of kilometers and it feels close to home. Age gap cannot create any barrier. Selfless love can bring tears to one's pain. That is true love.

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