There are wounds that cannot be seen but that can become deeply rooted in our soul and live with us for the rest of our days. They are the emotional wounds, the traces of the problems experienced in childhood and that sometimes determine how our quality of life will be when we become adults.
One of the deepest emotional wounds is that of rejection because whoever suffers from it feels rejected inside, interpreting everything that happens around him through the filter of his wound, feeling rejected sometimes even though he is not, thus bringing a set of consequences from the psychological to the spiritual level in the person.
Psychological rejection
To reject means to resist, despise or refuse, which we can translate into "not wanting" something or someone. This wound is born from the rejection of the parents towards their child or sometimes, from feeling rejected by the parents, without any intention on their part.
According to many studies, rejection is the first cause of unwanted behaviors in children and even adults as they grow up with this feeling.
When faced with the first experiences of rejection, one will begin to create a mask to protect oneself from this heartbreaking feeling that is linked to the undervaluation of oneself and that is characterized by a flighty personality according to the research carried out by Lise Bourbeau. Thus the first reaction of the person who feels rejected will be to flee, so it is not uncommon for children to invent an imaginary world.
The rejection that children may feel from their parents can trigger internal and external consequences in the long term. Gracia, Lila and Musitu (2005) highlight among internalized behaviors: passivity, apathy, social withdrawal, depressive feelings, self-destructive behaviors, nervous disorders and somatic problems. Among externalized behaviors we find impulsivity, hyperactivity, disobedience, destructive behavior, lack of self-control and violent behavior.
Spiritual rejection
Spiritually we speak of rejection as the first door that opens to the enemy to work in every human being, this gives authority to the devil to act as he wishes in the life of this being so that the purpose of God is not fulfilled since he always feels threatened by all divine creation of God, he uses this contrary feeling to want to divert the good of the life of the rejected being.
The rejection does not only come by words that we can say to children since their infancy, the rejection enters with a single thought of a mother, a bad gesture, a bad comment from even the conception of the embryo, example (it was not the moment to have this child), (now what will I do alone with this burden), This type of comments already makes the embryo that is being formed to be a rejected being and it is not only an embryo, but when the sperm joins the ovum it is already a soul that lives, a soul that has a purpose for this life, a soul that will be a generation in the future, a father, a son, a grandfather. That is why from the first moment of having a baby in the womb we must give it love to make it feel welcome that it will be a loved one.
Rejected people usually come with that feeling of fear, insecurity, failure, and even gives room for unclean spirits to work in their lives, where they are raped, groped, born homosexuals, by the simple fact of a rejection even before birth. In other words, it is the perfect opportunity for the enemy to work and sow iniquity in the lives of these beings.
What we can do in case of having committed this error by not knowing the truth, cry out to the one who saved us and break all curse in the life of these little ones and mainly ask for forgiveness even if we think we do not understand is more than enough to remove all legal right that through rejection was given to the enemy.
Ephesians 6:12
Reina-Valera 1960
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
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