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The right time to get married
Do you ever wonder what is the good age to get married? Maybe you think 🤔 "28 to 32"? Or others may think, "that's too old, you must marry at the age of 20s." We have a different opinion on this matter. But, is there really an ideal age to get married? Based on what I know, my grandmother, or my "Lola" already married at the age of 15. Too young, isn't it? It's because in their time... Their parents were the one who's in charge of choosing the husband for her daughter. That's why, after knowing that my Lola already menstruated, they decided to set a date and declared a wedding. You may think... "It's so unfair" or "They're not yet ready". Well... I think they're just fine with that. My Lola shared that at first she really doesn't know how to cook... But as time goes by, she just learned it. Because she doesn't have a choice but to do the house chores. 😂 So, that's the history. But for this millennial day, I don't think that rule is still applicable. Parents cannot control their children anymore. And people right now get married at different ages. Depending on their choice. So frankly speaking, there's no ideal age for marriage. It's just that people feel that anytime between the ages of 25-30 is the best age to get married. For example, if a woman wants to have a baby... She'll probably choose to get married at the age of 20s. Why? This is the time when women are most fertile and have the best chance of getting pregnant. While other people, who're choosy, or we can say "perfectionist" on choosing their ideal man or woman, tend to get married at the age of 40. Well, it's just fine. It's not too late to get married. I cannot blame them 'coz very few people out there are really worth marrying. 😅 But... Whatever age we choose, just don't marry if... it's not me. Sorry 😂✌ I mean, when you're not yet ready. 😉
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I personally think that maturity is very important to get married and to manage a strong and healthy relationship
It's true. That's one big requirement to get married.
Wonderful article It's educative..
Thanks for appreciating Eviziim 😊
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It doesn't matter at what age you get married as long as you make me a bridesmaid hahaha
Let's see if it's still possible. This pandemic can ruin that plan 😂
lol I'm just kidding
😂 you're not a kid anymore, why kidding 🤦♀️
For theres no right age of getting married. When I was single I want to get married by the age of 25 but I got married by 26 😂
Wow. At least it's still too close on your preferred age 😅
yeah. pinush ko talaga yon hahaha
Hahaha.. Kaya pala, buti 1 year lang ang agwat.. Nakahabol pa 😅
long story but then I thank God for an unanswered prayer haha.
Unanswered prayer?
Yep. kasi yung sinasabi ko na yun na magpapakasal ako e dun sa long time boyfriend ko, nag aantay lang talaga ko mag 25 para magpakasal kami tapos nagbreak kami nung 24 ako hehe. Syempre may mga prayers ako non after namin mag break pero hindi tinupad ni Lord yun bagkus may nakilala kong lalaki. Mabait, makaDiyos at higit sa lahat napatino nya ko. He leads me closer to God kase Born again Christian sya. Sya na yung asawa ko ngayon. Ang haba diba 😂
To make the long story short, napangasawa mo hindi mo naman long time boyfriend? Wow. Buti nakamove on ka kaagad. Nasa mabuting kamay ka naman kaya masaya yan haha
One year naman nakalipas bago ako nagboyfriend. Para sakin hindi naman totoo yung moving on..Acceptance lang talaga. Haha Sa one year na yon natanggap ko na dina sya babalik. Kaya ayun nag entertain nko. Tapos 1 month before ng wedding namin ng asawa ko bigla sya nagparamdam. Ayun sinabi ko na din na magpapakasal nako. Pero technically wala kami proper closure 😂 Pero ganon talaga ang buhay.
Mommy Yen. Ang sakit naman nyan sa puso. Naku syempre masakit din yon para sakanya, kaso huli na sya 🥺 May iyakan moment ba?? Haha
Ako lang umiyak hahaha. Magaling magtago ng nararamdaman nya yun. Tanong pa nga kung hindi daw ba sya invited hahaha.
Sabagay.. Ganyan talaga mga lalake e, di emosyonal unlike sating mga babae iyakin haha
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Nice article.
as long you are mature enough to know how to handle married life, go!!! haha
Hahaha.. Wala nang patumpik tumpik pa 😂
wag na aarte arte pa hahaha
this one is good article always think before you act .. and don't rush anything like marrying or you will regret it in the future haha just saying
It's true. Just like the illustration about the hot rice 😅 Marrying someone is not like the hot rice that you can just remove easily from your mouth when it hurts. Marrying is not a joke. So better think twice before doing an action, 'coz it's your future that matters.