Manage Money with Your Mate

Money is really in need to provide necessities for our families. Actually, it is a protection, security.

But as a couple, I know money is one of the topics that are hard to deal with. But don't let money ruin your marriage. Don't allow it to cause problems for both of you.

As a couple, you need to trust each other and work together on how the money will be spent.

📎SIT DOWN AND CALCULATE

Did you already try building a house? How did you manage to budget it? Did you just start it without planning about money? I'm sure you're wise about it and calculate everything to know the expenses, and finish it with all of that money.  Just like how you budget your money with your family... You need to talk together about how you will spend it. For example, you can make a list of what you need to buy... And how much will it cost? Maybe you list too many things to buy but think about it... Maybe you don't really need it. Having a lot of money doesn't mean you need to spend it all. Also, avoid being in debt. Just spend with your money, limit yourself.

TRY TO DO THIS:

⏩ If you have still money at the end of the month, don't plan and spend it alone. Talk with your mate and plan how you will use it.

⏩ If you spend some money on the wrong thing, make sure to create a new plan on how you will reduce some expenses. You can change your way of living. For example, avoid eating outside, instead... Try to cook your own meal at home.

📎BE HONEST

Be honest on your mate on how much money you earn, and how much money you spend. Remember that you're not living alone now. Consider your mate. You need to consult her whenever you will spend your money, specifically on the major decisions that you're facing. Communication about money is a big help to maintain peacefulness with you and your mate. View your money now, not your PERSONAL money, but as FAMILY money.

TRY TO DO THIS:

⏩Have an agreement on how much money to spend that each of you doesn't need to consult each other.

⏩Talk now about money, before a problem arises between you and your mate.

Many couples argue because of money. Although money is really important, don't allow it to ruin your marriage. You don't need a lot of money just to enjoy life. It causes greediness sometimes. Don't let it damage your precious love for each other. No money can be equivalent to your marriage. So, be contented. Accept what you have right now, and be happy.