Reminiscing good childhood days! 4 Things I miss the most!
Everyone on this earth misses their childhood times. Childhood is one of the most enjoyable and happiest days of someone's life.
Though there are exceptions but ultimately we all love and miss our childhood. Suddenly I just started writing about childhood because I want to share some amazing life experiences I had and want to listen your childhood life experiences.
It'll be very interesting going through memory lane of good old days.I'm sure the memories will make you so nostalgic and will take you to the nineties love.
Here I'm writing what things I'm desperately missing now:
A little version of me who don't have any worries of anything:
The best thing about childhood is at that time we don't need to be so much anxious about what will happen next.
If you ask me if want to get back one thing of my previous life I'll say the life of "Hakuna matata" means "the life of no worries".
When we become adult we tend to pressurise ourselves so much that life becomes gray and distasteful.
We always force ourselves as well as think of making money, marrying the perfect girl, finding the perfect girl, buying houses, looking after the family, economical crises, family crises, social crises etc etc.
As we grow older our head becomes filled with so much tensions. Ain't I right on this topic?
Can you name a day you weren't tensed about all the above mentioned things?
No you can't I can't nobody can't! But in our childhood life was not this much complicated rather it was very simple and enjoyable especially there was no pressure. In childhood there was no extra influence from anything.
I miss the the tension free childhood where I was just passing my times with friends, nature and my family. Are you missing your tension free childhood just like me?
Childhood friends are the best gifts from the Almighty because they were selfless.
As we grow older another change is seen inside ourselves.We become too much self focused and only cares about our own selves.
But at that time we all had some selfless friends where being selfishness is totally absent.
Again if you ask me if get chance to bring back anything from the past I'll surely bring my selfless and non- egoistic friends again.
At a certain stage of life we all need some mental supports but it's hard to get any mental support from friends these days.
I've seen no one really cares whether you are suffering from anything or not.The only one friend left is you.
I miss my friends childhood friends because they were pure gem which I lost on my way.
But if you still have one childhood friend, you are one of the luckiest person I must say.
Because that friend will understand your feelings more than your own self.
Most interesting fact is your friend will never forget your birthday!Ha ha!
In our childhood we all have some self-satisfactions but as we grow older we lose it.
If you give a child just a chocolate,he will be so much happy. He will give you a warm hug surely and will thank you for just a chocolate.But when we become older the totally opposite thing happens.
After working a month when we get the salary we become sad because we have wanted a bit more money.We lost self satisfaction and we also lose the ability of being happy about what we have.
I think you've noticed the difference already.A child becomes happy after getting a chocolate bar only but we elders becomes sad after getting the salary because we've wanted more.
But the interesting fact is we can buy 100 bar of chocolates with a one month of salary and can make almost hundred children's happy.But we can't make a single elder happy!
In our childhood we all had less demands, less needs and everything less.
Just a red Ferrari toy car can make a child the happiest child on planet earth. But as we grow older after already having a house we wanted to buy another one.Still we aren't happy because someone have three or more houses.
The best thing about less demands is it'll give you mental peace.
If you want more literally you've to work twice or thrice to manage the money.
And sometimes after working too hard we can't effort another big house.Shouldn't we be satisfied about what we already have?
A child understands that but we elders it's impossible to understand this simple thing.
I've tried to emphasize here the best things of childhood I, we ,everyone misses now.
But this is the ultimate truth of life that it is continuously moving on.
We will never be able to bring our sweetest childhood days back but we can bring happiness bringing back the life lessons of childhood.
Now I'm reminiscing the good childhood days and asking why those days just gone so fast?
Yes, time flies so fast leaving behind the naivety and honesty of the innocence of when we were children. Perhaps the secret to being happy is not to leave the inner freshness of childhood, no matter how wrinkled our skin is. We may not be able to rejuvenate our body, but we can unburden the soul of what debases it, turning ourselves into a child again. It sounds ideal, but dreaming costs nothing.