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First child

After many years of dating between two young people, having fun, going out, we came to the question when we will have a child. Some people don't even get to that issue and the child is already here. I don't know if it's better for the question to happen or for the child to happen. If the question come when we want, then surely there is another question, so how will we, then another question and where will we, it is a small apartment, then another question and how will we when we have a small car, we should have a bigger one, then another question and another so someone comes to the question and wait, we have many years, then again another question, will we be able to, so that we may not be late, so maybe better not and so we come to such madness that we do not even know which was the first question many years ago. If a child happens, without questions, then there is no space for any question, it just goes.

Well there is the beginning of the end as I would say, I mean beginning of end of sleeping. There is not sleeping because the baby drinks milk every 3 hours within 24 hours. There is not sleeping because the baby has cramps. The baby just gets used to us, we get used to the baby, the teeth grow and there is not sleeping again. It has 20 teeth, I know each one exactly how it came out because there was no sleep. When half of teeth grew, the baby started crawling, getting up, which means that you don't have to go to the gym during the day because you have a baby, plus not sleeping for almost a year.

That resulted in me being like a zombie. I didn't even mention the job because I don't remember how it all went, I have a black hole. Then there is walking, then the first bump on the forehead because I did not sleep again and I was not fast enough to save the fall.

Second child

The second child, as they told us, is just take care alone for itself. The only problem was the first month while she drank milk for three hours. We slept, we didn't ask much what happened to her, whether she ate the on time, whether she fell asleep on time, how many times she slept, whether we bathed her, whether we stayed with a friend and she fell asleep in our car. And here she is too, she's gnashing her teeth on her own, she's starting to crawl and get up, and it's easier for us. She doesn't cry, she laughs almost always, she laughs even when she sleeps, so she is satisfied.

Closing words

Dear future parents, do not ask when you want a child, let the child just happen, let the child shows you what he wants and when he wants and not when he has to according to some rules because another child will explain it to you without that rules. The world is different with them. They are the greatest happiness.

Thanks for reading and stay well and safe.

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It's a lot harder to raise a child, but a smile on their face makes us forget everything. I like the picture of your second child. Very cute. Well writing mate. Carry on.

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Yes, their smile is essence of life. Thank you very much.

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I understand all that problems that follows raising kids but I know that they are the greatest happiness for us and that is the most important.

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