Happy Is Created, Not Awaited

Happy is picked up, created, not expected and awaited. Happiness comes from within you, not from anyone else. You can only rely on yourself, yes, the only one who can bring happiness in the middle of your life is only you. So, stop hoping for happiness from others who may not care about you at all.

Creating happiness is a little difficult. it takes sacrifice there will be things you have to let go of. But once you can be detached and unbound, you can feel that you deserve happiness from the beginning. Now, dare you create your own happiness?

If you dare, are you able to let go of the following things? If yes, then check out some of these points:

• Things in the past that cannot be changed

Can you let go of things in the past that are far behind?

In this life, we will encounter things that we cannot change at all. For example, failure in a relationship. If you can turn back time, chances are you really want not to meet a figure that makes your heart shipwreck and numb. Unfortunately, it can not. You have to enjoy the stage after stage of the painful process to be able to stand like today.

Although it cannot be changed, the only way you can do it is to accept and be sincere. It is not easy, it takes effort and spaciousness of the heart. But, once you can do it, I wish you happiness at every step.

• The habit of doubting one's own abilities

Our mistake that is still often carried away until this moment is to doubt the ability and quality of ourselves. In fact, for others, you are a very extraordinary figure great even maybe you are a source of inspiration for others.

It is likely that what makes you doubt your abilities is a lack of self-confidence. If so, do you know what makes you stand up right now is yourself. Sometimes you can doubt, but you can't constantly wallow in it. Don't let pessimism eat away at your life.

• Toxic people around you

The longer you hang out with toxic people, the more poison accumulates in your body. As a result, you become stressed yourself. Far from being happy and optimistic to face the day.

Inevitably, like it or not, you should immediately find a way to keep your distance from toxic people around you. You want to be happy, don't you? are the best options you can choose. Don't think it's rude. Aren't they spreading poison on you also said to be an unpleasant act? You deserve to be happy. so if you want to be happy immediately "cut off" your relationship from toxic people.

• Unrealistic expectations

Expect without accompanied by effort is just nonsense. It will always be a dream during the day.

It is certainly necessary to expect high, but remember, the higher the stronger the effort. If there is no effort at all, while the expectation has penetrated the fourth heaven or through the atmosphere, when it falls, there is no forgiveness for the pain. So let go of unrealistic expectations and learn to expect only realistic things. Do not forget, accompany with effort also prayer.

• The habit of comparing yourself with others

Ask yourself, what makes you satisfied by comparing yourself to others? Maybe instead of being satisfied, you are depressed. Isn't that right?. Then, stop. Stay away from comparison.

You are not something to compare. Everyone has their own advantages, everyone has their own characteristics. And others will not look for the same things, they tend to look for different from you that others do not have. That's what makes you unique.

If you want to be happy, stop comparing yourself.

• Living by the standards of others

Are you still living on someone else's standards? Are you sure you can? If you can, go ahead. But if you can't, it might be a little crazy to be forced to continue to follow the standards applied by others. Your mind will continue to race to meet these standards, when you know you are not able to.

Why continue? Happy life is actually you can create your own standards that you can freely do in your own way. You are not hunted by deadlines, not hunted by standards, not hunted by things that make you mentally shaken.

So, you know how to start now?

Can you let go of some of the above points of your life for the sake of happiness? I hope it helps you.

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