Forgiveness Is The First Path To Happiness You Need To Do

Not everyone succeeds in forgiving, either forgiving himself or others. It may be easy to say but not really. Yes, that's life, sweet in the mouth is not necessarily sweet in the heart. But it will be much sweeter if this life is the same in the mouth, the same in the heart. It's more peaceful, right?

Sometimes we realize that other people have wronged us. The first thing most people reflexively do is release their negative emotion, perhaps challenging the person as well. Though maybe that person didn't mean anything negative. Or maybe he's just testing you. Things like this often happen in everyday life. Where we every day must be in touch with other people.

If emotions are not controlled, they will certainly repay the person who hurt them with painful actions as well. The question is, what is the difference between you and those who hurt you? Both hurt, right? Though maybe it was all just a misunderstanding.

Maybe other people intentionally hurt you, but with you hurting them back, what benefit will you get? Don't you feel the pain of letting out uncontrollable emotions? While the person you curse may not respond to you. Maybe they even feel happy to have seen you with burning emotions. Hey, remember guys! Negative emotions never give positive things in your life or are useless.

Everyone in this world must have made mistakes, including you or all of us. Maybe you can forgive others easily, but you can't forgive yourself. Maybe the mistake you made was fatal. But remember, there is always a way if you want to repent.

Begin to forgive yourself and promise not to make the same mistake again. Because sometimes being hard on yourself is necessary so that you can become a better person. Surely being the best version of yourself is the ultimate goal, right?

Forgiving is indeed very difficult, let alone forgiving someone or something that has disappointed us greatly. However, if you don't forgive and learn from experience, will everything you regret change things? The answer is no. So there's no point in you being trapped in an abyss of darkness if you don't get any results?

To be happy, what you need to do is forgive. Either forgive yourself or others. Of course, after forgiving, be determined not to repeat the same mistake again. Because if you do it again, there will be no progress in you. Yes, just like that, so when are you happy?

So, if you want to be happy, from now on, learn to forgive and not repeat mistakes that can make you down. Respect yourself and others with sincere forgiveness. Your life will feel more meaningful if the world is peaceful, right?

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