Don't Ever Think You Can Change Him As You Wish

Can one change? Or we're just getting older, stuck in the path of life we ​​live each year. If people can change, does that mean they always have the opportunity to change? Can you change someone?

If you've ever been in an unhealthy relationship, these questions have probably come your way.

• The only thing worse than an unhealthy relationship is being in a half-assed relationship. Where when all the beautiful things start to fall

As we know, when something starts to turn bad, and you clearly know that it's bad, it's easier for you to walk away. However, if the relationship isn't healthy but you're still in love, it just makes things even more complicated.

You feel that he is not good for you, but you also feel that he is not completely bad for you. And what's worse, you feel that he can be a good partner for you if he changes into a better person. And that's wrong.

• In fact, changes happen over time

One of the annoying things about love is that it gives you a perspective not only about someone, but also about whether someone can change.

You don't only see it right now, but you also see all the potential and advantages that have been hidden so far. And it is this potential that makes you love him to death.

We love their potential so much that we subconsciously believe that everything will be fine if this person wants to change. Our relationship will be fine. The love that you have shared will remain imprinted, and your future is guaranteed.

I hope that's how it works. but unfortunately all is not as beautiful as the shadow.

Everyone changes over time. All this time, we don't even realize that we ourselves have changed because it's hard to see ourselves objectively. The worst part is that we feel that we have grown up, and changed into a better person, when in fact we are only getting worse.

• People change when they have no choice but to change

In fact, we are not even possible to change other people. The only way is for us to help them make a change. Change is a part of life that forces everything in life to stick together. Change is not something that can be created or destroyed.

• the real question is, can you help your partner become the best version of himself or herself?

Maybe yes. Maybe not. Depends on your partner. It depends on how you look at each problem. But, you change it by the way you view every reality. However, your point of view may be different. It's true that your intention to change it for the better is good because you love him. But you better answer this one question first.

"Can your partner turn into what you want?"

Your intentions are noble because you want a change for the better, but do you realize that if you do it the wrong way, your relationship can fall apart? And in the end, the only person you can change is yourself.

• It's not that you can't help it change, but you just can't change

You can help by giving him every good reason to be a better person. You can always motivate him to never give up. You can give him encouragement so he doesn't give up. You can provide assistance by always being there when he is in trouble.

Other than that, it was up to him whether he wanted to change into the best version of himself or remain in a position where he never developed. It was something he had to do himself. You can't convince someone that they need to change, because it's a decision you have to make on your own.

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