Every ate or eldest daughter is the second mom in the house. They are obliged to learn all the household chores. They are the one who's responsible when the mother and father are out for works. They are the one who need to budget the money for the day.
As for me, I am not the eldest daughter in our house. But since the day my ate have her own family all her responsibilities are pass on me. My mama guided me on how to do some household chores that I don't know that time. She teaches me how to cook, how to budget our allowance for the day, how to do the laundry, how to do a proper cleaning in our house, when do I need to be awake and What I need to give more time.
Since that day I have learned how to manage my time, I always make my Day Plan every evening for the next day. I will wake up at 7 am, my mom didn't push me to wake up at 6 am to prepare the breakfast cause according to her I need to have a good and proper sleep since I am still a student. After I do All the household chores I will start to prepare my self and my siblings needs. Being an ate or the eldest daughter is not so easy but more easier than to be a parents. I can say that I find it fun and tiring at the same time. I take this as my preparation for the future. ❤
So, I salute all the Ate's out there!! You did great and big blessing to your family❤ Hope you will still find the courage to take care to your family even if they're are not so good to you ❤
Happy Sunday Everyone!!
Keep Safe and God Bless ❤