7 Relationship Anxiety Signs

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4 years ago

Are you overwhelmed with anxiety, uncertainty, and frustration about all the ways your relationship could potentially go wrong?

Are you making such an effort or is it real?

This irrational and constant fear is called relationship anxiety and it is something that many people struggle with. Even if things are going well in your relationship, you are constantly worried that the relationship will not last.

Sounds familiar? Do you think that you can have a relationship? Here are 7 signs of relationship anxiety that can help you find it.

You're insecure about your relationship

Insecurity is a common symptom of relationship anxiety.

Do you often struggle with the feeling that you do not belong or have no place in your life?

You always wonder how important you are to the people you love and how important you are to them. You ask yourself if they miss me when I go, if they have me when I need them, and so on. You wonder if the connection you feel with them is real.

You doubt your partner's feelings for you

Do you regularly doubt that your partner's feelings for you is real? No matter how many times they tell you that they love you and they don't help you and that it really means something.

Go out and make gorgeous romantic gestures, you still need more courage to calm the doubts in your mind. You always have to prove to them that you are the only one for them and they will never let you down with this deep fear of abandonment that makes your relationship anxiety.

You're afraid that things will get to serious

Do you love your partner, but can't trust him because you are secretly worried that your relationship will get more serious?

Relationship anxiety can make you hesitate to bond with someone and have a hard time becoming vulnerable. Deep down, you think I can never hold out. You fear being alone and heartbroken, which is why you keep your partner at an emotional distance.

The moment they mention something like meeting their parents, traveling together, or moving with them. You want to run far, far away because you think it's only a matter of time before the relationship breaks down and hurts you.

You're waiting for something to go wrong

Are you constantly sitting on the edge of your seat waiting for something to go wrong?

Relationship anxiety has convinced you that you are setting yourself up for pain and frustration. You have a hard time forgiving your partner for their mistakes and giving up because you are always looking for reasons to leave.

You talk big and get scared easily. Although you may think that you are protecting yourself. The truth is that anxiety is keeping you from being happy, enjoy the moment and give the person a chance to fight.

You want to please your partner too much

You choose to stay silent about what bothers you. You will let your partner give up what he wants, for fear of starting any conflict or disagreement. Are you familiar with it?

Relationship discomfort arises, which falsely guarantees you that they will leave you if you do not do everything to please your partner.

People's desire for well-being usually arises from the unresolved problems of abandonment and the need for dissatisfaction with love. You always prioritize their needs over your needs and you always go up and down to please them.

You beat your yourself up over everything

You may not be able to make an appointment, even if you have forgotten to message your significant other when you miss them. You always beat yourself up because you think of them as partners.

Every little mistake you make will make you mad at yourself, worrying that this could mean the end of your relationship, no matter how good your spouse is right or you have done nothing wrong, you can't help but feel guilty and worried.

You over analyze your relationship

Do you think past conversations play out in your head and you have to say no?.

You are worried that you will fall for every little disagreement, which somehow leaves them to you. If you have a tendency to overthrow your spouse's words and actions, look at the tone of their voice and the look of their faces and the happy mark of relationship anxiety.

Are you related to any of these signs or does this article describe someone you know? If you're backing out of this article about what you want to do next, let us know in the comments below. If this article helps you like, comment and decide. Thank you!

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It's absolutely normal for this to happen, but it's preferred you talk to your partner. Nice article

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4 years ago

Well, if your relationship was really toxic then you need to let go.

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4 years ago

Please subscribe back

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4 years ago

Nice article to make

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4 years ago

I always try to please my partner,I think that's my problem 😒

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4 years ago

Stop that. You don't need to please your partner coz if he truly love you, he didn't do anything just make you hurt.

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4 years ago

Very fantastic article

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4 years ago

Just trust and be honest to your partner are the key for the strong bond of your relationship

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4 years ago

Of course. But sometimes , in the end. Trust is not enough.

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4 years ago

Some people in relationships fear for their partners feelings, if their partner really cares for them as they do.

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4 years ago

Of course. And if that person is for you, it will be.

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4 years ago

You present maximum major point between in a relationship.many chapter are same as my relationship.

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4 years ago

"Trying to please my partner too much" is the part I can relate to in my previous relationship. Always trying to avoid anything that'll make her get angry so as to avoid the drama or the idea of her getting crossed with me. And at the end of the day, it was not worth it. I was a fool, But I learned.. Nice post

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4 years ago

Lot of people experienced that especially women. They scared of being alone that's why they please their partner too much but in the end, they still leave. But It's okay, atleast we learned. Don't forget to subscribe for support. 💗

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4 years ago

Nice one.

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4 years ago

Stop commenting that are not related to topic. This comment was mark as spam

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4 years ago

Well, you explained all kinds of relation so well. I love to read it

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4 years ago

Thank youuu so much 💗

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4 years ago

You have described the anxieties of the relationship very well. I think It takes a lot of sacrifices to have a good relationship. But there is also the benefit of sacrificing whenever the other person realizes it. Whenever you feel uncomfortable in your relationship, keep increasing the amount of love, trust, care, confidence.

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4 years ago

Yes because if you don't have that, your not deserved in that relationship.

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4 years ago

Yes, and Thanks for sharing. Ms.Write

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4 years ago

No problem.

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4 years ago

Relationship get bore when the distance are so close from each other. I saw my friend was attached with a long distance relationship. Whenever they try to meet with one another, they get so exited! That exitment feel me to understand the emotion in long distance relationship

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4 years ago

Yes that's true. The excitement are in there if your in a long distance relationship. But sometimes, living together or too close with each other still have an excitement like me, I always excited. Because if you truly love the person, you didn't loosing your interest to that person.

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4 years ago

Yeah, you also right, if there true love, nothing can stop the exitment

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4 years ago

Its absolutely normal for everyone, but it's best ideal to discuss doubts with your partner. The anxiety will eventually fade off with more certainty. Talking from experience tho

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4 years ago

Yeah, that's the best thing to do for being in a relationship.

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4 years ago

This kind of relationship will not last long.. If one is always having a doubt... Better to talk to each other to clarify things... It will only give stress to mind

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4 years ago

Yeah, and ofcourse if your not ready, don't commit kasi po masasaktan lang yung tao. Much better po kung may tiwala sa partner. 🙃

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4 years ago

True.. Hndi healthy sa relationship kpg ang sa nag iisip ng ganyan.
I guess this is your genre in writing.. Bout relationships 😅

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4 years ago

Minsan po HAHAHA wala lang naexperience ko na po kasi ginagawan ko nalang article 😂

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4 years ago

Ayun.. Oo nga nmn..mganda my experience..madali macompose ng article 😁

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4 years ago

Hirap kasi po pag di mo alam. Need mo pa magbasa at magresearch. 🙃

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4 years ago

Tama.. Mganda dn own words

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4 years ago

Can't relate to this though i had a LDR with my bf, communication, trust, loyalty and patience really works especially in the LDR type of relationship n like this article of yours n hope that this will help those who's encountering or having this type of situation or something like this

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4 years ago

How many years are you in a relationship? Stay strong po. 🙃

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4 years ago

Almost 2 years na po n salamat po 🙂

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4 years ago

Wow! Bihira nalang ang tumatagal ng ganyang katagal sa LDR. Ang tibay nyo po!

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4 years ago

Opo, mdyo lng po, sna nga po tumagal pa po kmi

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4 years ago

Matagal na po kayo eh. Sana mas tumagal pa hehe. Gaano po layo nyo sa isat isa?

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4 years ago

Opo, sna po, sobrang layo po kc nsa Delaware po xa, almost 20hours po ang byhe via airplane po papnta d2 sa atin po sa Pilipinas

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4 years ago

Nagkita na po kayo?

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4 years ago

Sa video call lng po

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4 years ago

Oh. I thought nagkita na kayo po.

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4 years ago

Not yet pa po

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4 years ago

Paano mo po sya nakilala?

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4 years ago

Sa kuya q po

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4 years ago

Ang galing naman. Paano ka naman po nakakasiguro na di sya nagloloko don? No offense po ah.

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4 years ago

Tiwala lng po, at saka po most of the time, nsa house lng din po xa ngaun dhil ala din po xa work n before, lgi nya po ksama ung kuya q po dhil mgkwork n mgkaibigan po clang dalawa n mtanda po sa akin ung bf q po n biyudo na po xa

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4 years ago

Ah. Age doesn't matter talaga po noh? Andon pala kapatid mo. Saang bansa po ba?

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4 years ago

Opo, age doesn't matter po, lol, sa lugar po ng mga kano, lol,

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