Happy married life

Although the word "marriage" is only Eight letters long, its underlying meaning is very wide, which has its roots very deep in our society. It is through this marriage that two men and women start walking together, then they have a long way to go. Many married couples follow this path and stay together till the end of their lives, while many couples follow different paths and bend in different directions, separation occurs.

In fact, how can two men and women live a happy life together after marriage, enjoying every moment together?Trying to find an answer to this question is not easy, but it is not impossible.

We need to keep in mind that marriage is the result of the desire of two people to be together, where perhaps there is a lot of romance and attraction between the two for each other. But after marriage, in fact, they began to go a long way together. In this long journey, if some things can be taken care of, then that initial romance, love for each other can be maintained for a lifetime. Even the best couple in the world, as you can see, has a lot of attention, care and a lot of effort behind the survival of the relationship.

It is possible to get the story of a successful couple from a successful marriage by looking at five things...

1. Mutual understanding

Mutual understanding is at the heart of a successful marriage. In the case of a relationship, look at what I got from my partner - not just thinking about it, what I was able to give to my partner. If someone thinks that he should give as much as he should, he is not giving as much as he should or if someone gets angry inside thinking that he is just going through, not getting anything, then it indicates an unequal relationship.

Many couples think that they can solve all their problems with love and if their partner truly loves them, then their partner will do whatever he says. But they forget that every person's personality and needs are different. Just because we think we want to spend the rest of our lives together does not mean that we will lose our identity or discussion.

2. Open mutual Discussion

Remember, a knife does not kill the relationship, the life-and-death of the relationship depends on the amount of mutual discussion. In a married life, if the husband and wife do not find a way to talk openly to each other, then it will not take long for the married life to be filled with bitterness instead of love. In married life, both husband and wife must speak directly to each other and it must be regular.

This does not mean that one of the husband and wife will be waiting for the opportunity, he will tell the opportunity, how much he is upset about one of his partner. This means that if one of the spouses has a grievance in his mind, he must disclose it, while maintaining mutual respect.

3. Determine the subject of mutual conflict and fight:

When two people start living together after marriage, they gradually begin to discover that no matter how much love and attraction works between them, they are two very different people and it is easy to spend day after day with a different person. No matter.

So there must be a quarrel between the married couple, mild monomalinya, quarrel. But prepare yourself to decide what to argue with your partner, try to understand. Would you argue with yourself about not wearing a little toothpaste cap or keeping your shoes in place? Or will you save your mental strength to fight for your own economic development, child rearing, or your own career? Believe it or not,Most couples quarrel with each other over very small issues.

4. Do not hide your partner.

When a man enters the long way of a married life, many lose their needs behind the needs and wants of their partner. He may simply be willing to move from one city to another in order to have a child or to raise a child.He may simply be willing to move from one city to another in order to have a child or to raise a child. That's fine. But before that, a person needs to understand how important the things he is discounting really are to himself. If things really matter to her, she should talk to her partner and make as much concessions as possible. But when giving that discount, he also gives his needs and needs to his partner.

That is, make concessions for your partner, but not completely forgetting your own needs. Because it is harmful for any married life to go a long way.

5. Honesty and fidelity

What a man wants from his partner is the same. But almost everyone expects honesty and fidelity from their partner - these two things and this desire is the most important thing.

Because, a partner is the person on whom his other partner wants to rely without any hesitation and for a long time.

However, care should be taken so that the marital relationship does not break down for any small mistake of the partner. Instead, focus on the larger and more important things. For example, before marriage, someone said, he is working as an engineer in a big company, but he may never have passed engineering.

A beautiful and strong married life is a lot like a beautiful conversation, where they appreciate each other, trust each other, keep each other close. The subject of that conversation is constantly changing. You need to listen to your partner and talk to yourself, paying attention to what your partner is saying.

It's not that marriage is over and that "getting married" is the end of it all. In fact, after marriage, a long chapter in life begins, where one has to constantly try to learn - how to strengthen communication between oneself openly and honestly, and it must be done while maintaining mutual respect and esteem.