first of all I read an article saying we should stop asking people to subscribe and comment on our work, it was a nice piece but here I go please subscribe to my writings look at my previous work, up vote them and add some little BCH it will go along way in changing the world(my life I meant).
There is this best seller EQ is better than IQ, if you have read it I bet you felt bubbly and all rosy inside( that’s what motivational books are supposed to do), am bored so I thought I should pay you guys with some reality cheque. A Harvard research on lifetime success found out that cognitive ability was the highest factor that determine success, it’s a very bitter pill to swallow considering you cant do anything to change your IQ. Well I had tried learning chess to see if I would be smarter( I quit on the second day).
Knowing that we cant change our IQ and at least we don’t have to act nice all the time to everyone frees us to some extent resentfulness and bitterness that comes with being a fake persona. Imagine going to a party after reading (EQ is better than IQ), then people are discussing and someone says something ridiculous and maybe you have a little bit information on the subject, as an EQ specialist you want everyone to like you and you let the guy off the hook.
Speak your truth clearly so that you get to learn where you are idiot( we all are in some ways) but not speaking out makes us appear more intelligent than we are or at least not stupid but that too has consequences, we will never know where our thinking is flawed and should be corrected.
As I conclude EQ does not exist, just be modest and more articulate, don’t be afraid to disagree with people because of likability.
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