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Indirect approaches to make a girl fall in love

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To discover that boys rarely try to be close to a girl purely for friendship would probably come as a surprise to girls. Perhaps there is still a certain attraction involved. Most girls would testify to this that some apparently "innocent" touch started with a lot of their romantic activity with boys.

But it is beside the point whether boys can admit or deny this. And there are such things as intentions that are unconscious. Because of some latent or secret attraction, a person will continue to communicate with someone that he or she might not even be aware of.

Often the fear of outright rejection makes a person hesitate to show any romantic interest in another direction. Thus, instead of making a straightforward statement, many would turn to indirect means. It's typically the case now that a guy isn't going to explicitly approach a girl and state his appeal. For most girls, that is way too scary. He would first want to become part of the girl's circle of friends whether the guy is a classmate or an officemate, pretending to be genuinely thoughtful to all. The guy's friendly conduct wins the favor of his peers while offering camouflage for his true intentions at the same time. And once the girl has become relaxed with the presence of the man, the next step begins.

One indirect tactic is for the guy to give the girl continuous attention. Simple daily greetings can turn into asking how she is. The guy shows interest and volunteers to do things for her when the girl starts sharing about herself, her ups and downs. The girl perceives this as sweetness which eventually transforms into dependency on the man. And this is when they begin to develop mutual feelings. The guy is going to allow this to gradually develop. And when he feels the girl's commitment to him, that's when he makes his move.

Another indirect technique is appealing to the caring side of a child. With empathy, girls are conditioned that one day they will become mothers. When someone she knows is troublesome, a girl appears to be worried. Some people are conscious of this and take advantage of it. Whether it is real or just made up, a guy might begin his approach to a girl by sharing his "problem." Guys appear to share their woes with a current romantic partner in certain instances and begin asking the girl for advice. The girl unknowingly takes the bait and without her realizing it, her concern for the guy begins to grow. This is when the guy senses this when he makes his pass.

The third is what I call the strategy to 'irritate and compliment.' With mildly annoying remarks about her appearance and actions, the guy will constantly tease the girl. This makes the girl aware of herself, making her realize that she is not desirable. This somewhat decreases her self worth. But the guy is only after her affection while conditioning her to get used to him at the same time. The guy will stop annoying the girl at some point and will begin praising her. The girl will be put on an intoxicating emotional roller coaster by this unexpected upward boost of self-worth from the guy's praises. She would like the teasing to end and continue with the praise.

Bear in mind, all these cases give the guy the mask of deniability. In any of these cases, no one can say that he is courting the girl. He can always say he's just a "mate." But both of these methods are very effective.

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