I have seen that many parents beat and tell at their kids and I am one of those who's the victim of this behavior. Sometimes it's necessary to shout on children when they get out of control but being a habitual of beating them is not fair.
Kids are like an angel, they do naughty and funny things, they fight with others children. But yelling and beating is not a proper solution. According to my thoughts, it's a worse and scurvy way to treat with child.
I can understand that sometimes parents especially father due to his responsibilities and burden of work lead them to frustrate and they become agressive and abuse verbally. But it's not a good sign of getting physical with your child, it has so many bad effects on children health and life.
Effects of getting physical and abusing kids:
Children are always innocent and loveable. But have you ever thought that what happened to their life if you show anger and torture with your bad words? They feel insecure with your agressive nature, they can't do anything properly in their life. They just fear every time that they gonna be beaten for what they do. They don't makes friend and don't enjoy their life. They just try to be alone and try to hide their self from everyone.
It can be the cause of getting abnormal, just because of parent's bad habbit of yelling they can't grow well and their future will become dark. Their mind stop growing while their body grows with the passage of time, and they behave abnormally.
So please be polite with your children especially when they are stage of growing. Try to calm yourself and if you tell on them so just go to them and apologize them. And tell them why you have beaten them. It will make a relation better with your kids. Give them your time and try to be calm every time.
Agreed. There's other ways to raise your kids without having to be violent but then sometimes some parents only know how to be violent because of their own upbringing as well so you can't blame them. It's basically a cycle