Do you have a rule in your life that you never break?Β What and how did you become your base?
I have some rules that I am convinced of, from my point of view, and therefore I find them impossible to break:
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If it doesn't suit me, I don't accept it.
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The policy of refusal or saying I do not follow it in all matters that do not suit me or will constitute pressure or discomfort, without feeling that it is embarrassing.
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Respect other people's boundaries. And their privacy, and I do not ask about something that the other party did not want to reveal or share with me, even if it is my friends.
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There is no joking about some things. Something a person misses in his life, weight, skin color, clothes, personal matters, secrets he told me or flaws.
β I deal with each person according to the nature of his life and the nature of his affairs. So that he does not feel that there are differences between us, I will not talk to someone and put some English words for example, and I know that he will not understand me, I will not give you an expensive gift and make you feel pressured that you have to return me a gift of the same value, moderation is better, pay attention to such matters in dealingΒ .
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Cinema is a place to watch movies. I don't talk about anything or do anything that distracts me from the movie. The movie should do its justice. I go to the cinema once or twice a week. This rule cannot be broken.
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My family first, then anything or anyone comes after. When there is a big problem. It is clear that my father is angry. I never speak unless I find that my speech will make a difference. I do not interfere between my mother and my siblings when a problem arises between them, unless someone asks me to intervene, otherwise I do not. I don't eat lunch after five o'clock, and don't ask me why because I don't know.
Not all things deserve to be taken seriously.
β I respect the date between me and anyone. If my appointment is at six o'clock, I will definitely arrive ten minutes early for precaution, and this applies to calls as well in commitment.
β When I started driving. I made a rule that I would not wear the handset while driving, and if someone was with me in the car, I would prefer to postpone the call for another time.
β Whatever thing someone did to me. Even if it was very simple, if he only listened to me, I thank him and be grateful to him and try to show my appreciation for this favor.
When I wake up, I avoid holding the phone as much as possible.
β I don't go out to work or stud. Unless I've tidy up my room and don't go out until I've had a good breakfast, I mostly stick to this rule for my mom's sake.
β Do not contact a person more than twice, and if necessary, leave a message explaining the importance.
β If something makes me happy, even if it is trivial, unimportant, or useful, I do it. What matters is that it makes me happy.
β Not a day goes by without drinking tea.
β When I visit someone. When I visit someone. He offers me snacks, I do not eat much of what he offers, and if there is a determination, even if I do not feel hungry, I will eat in appreciation of the person who stood up and did all this, and praise in eating even if there is something negative.
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I don't suppose, as long as the person didn't say anything.
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On holidays or occasions, send congratulations to all people, even those who do not have a conversation between us, or there is a situation between us.
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I don't hide anything from my mother, no matter how wrong it is, even if she is going to punish me.
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If there is an important work, occasion or exam. I don't do anything before that that takes my mind off, I don't talk about a problem, watch a movie, or get into an argument.
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When I meet with my friends, I don't pick up the phone, and generally turn off my internet connection, because I feel that it is annoying and underappreciated.
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I choose my clothes that I will wear tomorrow the day before, so that there is no delay.
Of course there are other things but I don't remember.
Thank you very much for reading and listening to me.Write to me your most important habits, so that I may find a better habit.Have a nice day .πππ