How do you know if your best friend loves you?
After a long hiatus, I am back.
They say you know yourself better than anyone else. So if you have a crush on your friend, you know the feeling of butterflies in your stomach or the shivers that travel to your spine. But what if it is on the other way around? What if your best friend is secretly in love with you?
You've known each other for a long, and you've finally met someone with whom you feel comfortable picking your navel and farting in public. It sounds funny and embarrassing, but I know some who really do it.
In addition, As if by some strange twist of fate, she has begun to laugh at your ridiculous jokes instead of looking at you with contempt. You've come to recognize her as a person rather than a simple friend. So, how can you determine if your best friend likes you without ruining your friendship?
First of the things that come to mind is body gesture. When you two get together, he or she will do all he or she can to make some physical touch like holding your hands, pinching your nose, a little jolt, a gentle push. Within seconds, it will be over. But if it is more than what you expect, there may be something in it already. But remember to never assume unless otherwise stated.
Another one is when your best friend asks about your past relationships. Your best friend could casually inquire about your prior relationships or about the kind of person you like. However, if you say the type of person you're interested in, your best friend becomes silent. This might be because he or she is listening carefully and remembering those things. But again, do not count your chicks when they are not yet hatched.
Casually make jokes about the two of you being together. Sometimes, this is meant as a joke. But sometimes, jokes are half meant. And there is a probability that when your friend thinks about your future, he or she feels something. It is hard to assume, but sometimes, gut feelings are right.
On the other hand, if you are the friend you could, of course, just ask them. While I realize this isn't the coolest thing to do, or maybe I'm just getting old, it seems to be the most practical manner. Trying to mislead your best frined into saying anything could work, but doesn't it look a bit childish?
If they're a close buddy of yours, once you've sat down and looked them in the eyes, it's time to ask. If you're in the same boat, maybe you could share your thoughts with him or her?
Shyness is always there; sure, it's frightening, but that's true for everyone. You don't want to spend your life under the thumb of fear. Even if the world might be a frightening place, all you have to do is muster the willpower and go on. When you're brave, you're willing to put your life on the line for something you believe in.
Is it possible to go through life without fear? You'll never go far in life if you don't know who you are and who you love at all times. Taking a risk is more vital than avoiding it. For example, you could not just stand by and watch a person who has special meaning for you go with another person. For as long as you care about them. Then, have an excellent time and go for it!
All in all, being in love with your best friend may be a wonderful and exquisite experience, one that makes you happy and charming to everyone around you. Pain and regret, on the other hand, might occasionally follow. Despite the fact that your emotions towards one another have changed to being romantic over time, you couldn't verbalize it. When no one was watching, you exchanged a shy smile. I was getting a little too close to the camera. Every time you looked at each other, your hearts seemed to skip a beat. It is possible that you are in love. As a result, you had a great time unlike any other. If, on the other hand, you value your friendship highly and are unwilling to take a chance on asking or admitting it, then that is your choice.
Some people tend to like to go through the best friend stage before they become lovers but sometimes, it's not always a good idea to fall in love unless it was your plan in the first place