I never expect that this will happen earlier but still a blessing.
Way back in 2012, in December I am just thinking that I am just sick with a slight fever or something. Because I have also Hyper Acidity, so Mom treated me a herbal medicine just to treat my Hyper Acidity. But it does feel good it was just continued up to a week. I did not enjoy the food of Christmas, and New Year.
There was a baptism of my Niece and I am one of the Godparents but I did not attend the mass because I am not feeling well. But we went to the reception and of course I did not enjoy the food, there is a lot of food like Lechon Baboy. I went home immediately it was Christmas Eve. No, I did not go home to my parent's house I went to our boarding house and I meet my boyfriend there. But in the boarding house, my cousin also leave there.
The day before the new year I am still not feeling well, I feel that I have Hyper Acidity everything that I want to eat I will vomit. For almost a month I am not feeling well, but before that happen that I feel sick. My boyfriend asks his friend to buy a PT (Pregnancy Test Kit)
And when we see the result is positive, he told me he will become a father and I saw happiness on his face. But when I ask him about the responsibility for being a father what need to do or something, he keeps on thinking because at that time I am a fresh graduate with no work. And he was a part-timer not yet responsible for everything at the age of 24.
We attempted to abort but most safely, I drink a sap of Panyawan but I can't drink it because of subrang pait. That's the start of my not so good feeling so I keep on vomiting started that day.
I told him I will not do it anymore I will fight the baby no matter what because I know at first my parents will angry with but soon they will accept it. When my parents know about it, and as I expected my father was so angry. Very very angry. When my parents ask me who is the guy, where he lives because they want to talk to him. When I ask my boyfriend at that time he wants to marry me but his parents don't like me. His parents have a lot of alibis so that they can't go to our house, they also said they are afraid in our place because it has a lot of guns for hire. But I tell them that fine and it's safe here or if they wanted they will be escorted by police for their safety. After a long discussion thru text, his parents agreed and went to the house.
That pamamanhikan happened surprisingly to my other relatives and friends because my father hates issues. After all, he is a barangay captain at that time. So as we expected every people in our barangay talk about me.
I never expected to become pregnant as early as 21 but of course, it's my fault also I know it. 100% unexpected but everybody said it was a blessing so never feel to a baby that it is not welcome because they feel it too.
My 7-month conception.
My pregnancy is not so easy, because until 7 months my conception is still there. My womb becomes bigger but I still have vomit every morning. Or they call it morning sickness, I don't like to eat sardines or even the smell of that. I don't like my husband will not be here beside me.
I am so thin when I'm pregnant, at 7 months my womb was big and my body was thin. Only the ferrous sulfate will help me a little. Sometimes at dawn, I want to wake up my husband because I want him to buy me some Chicharon but he neglected me because it already dawns no stores were open at that time. Early in the morning when I wake up my husband was not on my side because he went to the market earlier to buy me some Chicharon but my cravings for that food was expired already. Hahaha. The next day I want some Siopao, but when the siopao arrives I don't like to eat it, I just want to watch it. And also I want to play the nose and mouth of my husband so the nose and the mouth of Son look like him. Hahaha.
He is so cute🥰 I am so lucky that I can't take Sap of Panyawan because God will not forgive me if that will happen. And as I say, everybody will accept what will happen.
And my experience of labour is not so long pain but it takes almost 24 hours. Hahaha. But it's worth the pain because I have a beautiful gift from God. I am so lucky to have a very handsome Son a very playful and makulit.
Look at this for months old baby boy. The unexpected thing that happens to me is now into a real-life was so nice. I know this is a big challenge for us in my partner, we need a double-time for double income but as a wife, I need to stay at home to take good care of my Son. We live in my Inlaws house, we are not so close but I need to adjust because we don't have enough funds to build our house.
Our unexpected thing is now our everything. He is 1 year old at the time, his happiness is to go outside and walk and walk somewhere and everywhere.
He is now our everything, we love him so much even he is so makulit, not doing his module sometimes. Hahaha. My sleep buddy never falls asleep if I am not the one beside him. He keeps holding my hands because it feels soft and cold he told until he fall asleep.
Minsan talaga nakapag isip din tayo ng hindi mabuti lalot nat biglaan at hindi pa ready ,buti nalang pinagpatuloy at ayan ,may gwapong blessings ka na galing kay lord💖